am I screwed already? help

dorian · Posted: Wed Aug 09, 2006 4:03 am Post subject: am I screwed already? help

Hello to all and my special greeting to the older members of the board. PU's are truly an art.

I have been working on this HB8 for about a month and all I have gotten is some serious kino time but cannot kiss close or f-close. The worst thing is that...being a AFC...I got to the point of talking about how I truly like her and enjoy time with her and kinda even love her. damm...I know...I know....terrible.

The thing is that after that she said she would think about being my girlfriend and sometimes I can tell she gets jelous and all but man....this one know how to flip things back and forth and make me lose control and get me nervous. Am I fucked because I said I love her and shit like that?
Also, I cannot be dominant while her friends are watching...I think she might reject most kino attempts and stuff in public.

Don't flame me...I am completely new to this thing.

thanks to all.

dorian · Posted: Wed Aug 09, 2006 6:24 am Post subject:

bump.

paquitao · Posted: Wed Aug 09, 2006 9:36 pm Post subject:

Man now you have to go out kiss every girl, show her that you dont' care anymore let her know how many girls are you picking up, freeze her out............ and maybe you have the chance to run or game again,,,,..

dorian · Posted: Wed Aug 09, 2006 10:07 pm Post subject:

thanks for the reply paquitao. I will definetly let her know I am hitting on other girls. that may work. if it doesn't, whatever, there are more 8's around. I just regret having put myself in a submissive situation where she is the prize and I am in love and shit. damm, she is hot.

regards to all.

dorian · Posted: Thu Aug 10, 2006 4:08 am Post subject:

I just came back from going for drinks with two sisters and the one I was hitting harder knows me for a while and she kinda commented I was being a bit mad or rude to today. I said stuff like "go ask for more mustard yourself honey, those nice legs are for more than looks" and I tried to neg her by saying she was just too thin and that I may need to take her to a restaurant where they really use lots of potatoes. I dunno, cocky and funny worked, and also got to dismiss a couple of other guys, but at the end of the day I feel unsatisfied. No IOI's whatsoever, we sat on a place where there was a tv playing music videos and she positioned herself as to watch the tv and have her sister beside her instead of me. She was looking to other places as I was talking to her sister, and her legs were crossed opposite to me. Few eye contact as well.

geeez! Confused

Saros · Posted: Mon Aug 14, 2006 2:21 am Post subject:

I'd say to drop this one and move on and PU another. Whether you agree or not, she is becoming your one-itis and focusing all your effort on one girls is just not worth it. In HER mind she probably put you into the friend category.

Kurent · Posted: Mon Aug 14, 2006 2:54 am Post subject:

LJBF her and keep her as a pivot. Say to her, "help me go out and pick up girls." If she won't even kiss you, after a month, she is not worth your attention.

Rocks and gold. You give all the rocks, but for no gold.

dorian · Posted: Mon Aug 14, 2006 4:51 am Post subject:

Saros, Kurrent, thanks for the replies. both of you are right on the spot.
Indeed, I am afraid this is becoming slightly a case of one-itis. I am gaming other girls but this one takes most of my attention, interest, time, and dough! Embarassed

Today I was with her at a fast food chain and I started hitting on some other girls. She just asked "do you know them?" and I was like "no", and she looked a bit surprised.

Whatever, I will definetly LJBF her and stop wasting my time there.

thanks guys.

Shaft · Posted: Mon Aug 14, 2006 6:42 pm Post subject:

Good luck, I wanna know how it turns out.

dorian · Posted: Sat Aug 26, 2006 5:31 am Post subject:

to see the development of this thing please read my post on the Field Report section. thanks guys.

Jaxin · Posted: Sat Aug 26, 2006 5:38 am Post subject:

do a couple routines cube and whatnot then do evolutionary phase shift if that doesn't work then its over man let it go.

	Replies	Author	Views	Last Post
How do I get out of the friends department?	36	narcist	5880	Thu Jan 08, 2009 3:56 am _Manna_
How do i do a ESP Reading	49	Quagmire	9937	Mon Dec 29, 2008 3:42 am blanch32
What do I SAy to and HB? What kind of line will open her up.	45	Drevon	13467	Fri Dec 12, 2008 7:33 am RailRoad
Am I too to start playin?	102	Shy1	9741	Mon Sep 22, 2008 12:54 am Kalel
How do I deal with LSE 10?	12	CollegeGuy	3148	Fri Jun 06, 2008 7:38 am Rye Lee

Terrible
Bad
Average
Good
Excellent

	Pick Up Artist Forum Home Page -> PUA Lounge - General Discussion	All times are GMT