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Strive
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 Posted: Fri Aug 03, 2007 1:13 am Post subject: Being in your element (not the damn car) |
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I had a huge confidence builder yesterday and it was due to being in my element. I went to a heavy metal concert last night. I have been having trouble relaxing for a while and my game has been horrible. Last night, lisening to the music, I was able to completely relax and let go with no worries.
One of the lead singers was smoking hot. After the show I got to talk to the band and during that time she was giving me IOI's! Normaly around really good looking women I choke but I was so relaxed that my natural game came out. My Confidence is overflowing now.
I would recomend people with low confidence start with places they feel good being at, then when you start to do well there, take that feeling and bring it with you to other areas and expand you playing field. |
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Demonic
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| Posted: Sat Aug 11, 2007 6:57 am Post subject: |
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I see...it's weird because i am not old enough yet..but the place I feel that I would be most comfortable is in a nightclub....hehehe...that's probably a bad trait, I will work on that  |
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Crasher
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| Demonic wrote: | | I see...it's weird because i am not old enough yet..but the place I feel that I would be most comfortable is in a nightclub....hehehe...that's probably a bad trait, I will work on that |
work on getting in first 
as far as your element goes try that all the time by taking dates and picking up at bars i hang out in i think music plays a huge factor if i hear one of my favorite songs for me nothing can go wrong |
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The Wild One
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| Posted: Thu Dec 06, 2007 11:23 pm Post subject: |
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| good read. If you want to be comfortable in different places with women you have to face your fear and go to those places. Otherwise you will always live in fear and thats weak man. |
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Locke
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| Posted: Fri Dec 07, 2007 12:03 am Post subject: |
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to add to The Wild One;
yes, for development you need to "face fears" and advance your game. But in the beginning baby steps are the way you grow. That is really good advice Strive.
I personally would take a Ska concert over a metal though
the atmosphere is much more easy going and fun.  |
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lil-nicky
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| Posted: Mon Jul 07, 2008 6:01 am Post subject: In the zone |
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| When you guys are sarging, do you ever feel at certain points like you are just "in the zone" and you always have something pimp to say and they always responds just the right way, it happens to me inexplicably and i wish i knew what triggered it |
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Stetson
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| Posted: Mon Jul 07, 2008 10:21 am Post subject: Re: In the zone |
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| lil-nicky wrote: | | When you guys are sarging, do you ever feel at certain points like you are just "in the zone" and you always have something pimp to say and they always responds just the right way, it happens to me inexplicably and i wish i knew what triggered it |
Its called being comfortable and confident  Having success with women will up your confidence through the roof.
I get my confidence and comfort high just from wearing my sarging clothes. |
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sexomaniac
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| A buddy of mine is a natural born a-male pimp and I follow his lead... now it turns into a competition. I am the second best but still score high. Turn philandering into competition mode and watch what happens. |
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Stetson
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| sexomaniac wrote: | | A buddy of mine is a natural born a-male pimp and I follow his lead... now it turns into a competition. I am the second best but still score high. Turn philandering into competition mode and watch what happens. |
Well I find that annoying, some of my best friends have started mimicing me.
Sure its no problem for me but they don't know anything about it and start messing around with me and my target with some lines that I have said before to some girls.
It makes me look bad ! |
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spl1nt3r
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| I can honestly believe that. I have read this article in Men's Health which states : "Your favorite music can lift up your brain power an octave or two. The New York Academy of Science discovered that listening to your favorite music, whatever genre, has positive effects on cognition, Listen just 10 minutes before a test can improve performance." |
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Kaine
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| I totally agree! |
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taggy
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| Posted: Thu Oct 09, 2008 8:43 pm Post subject: |
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| i agree too...music puts me on a rise too concerts also |
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