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Jago
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 Posted: Tue Jun 26, 2007 2:41 pm Post subject: New from the UK |
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Hi Guys,
I'm new to this. I, like many others, learnt about PUAs by Style's book. I am currently really bad at picking up women. And I mean terrible. I have zero confidence to approach and open...... I chicken out every time.
I think I've got an idiot inside my head who, when talking to women, does one of three things:
1) Decides that the best strategy is to say nothing until the tension is unbearable.
2) Finds a point we disagree on and argues until she wants to stab me in the balls with a folk.
or
3) Acts like an epileptic staring at a strobe light!
I've a long way to go........ But Hi, I’m new!
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sundayraver
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Hi welcome!
Just a quick question, do you have difficulty chatting to randem guys too? not like approaching them but if u meet a friends friend do you feel you are able to keep a decent conversation going? |
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Jago
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Not as much with guys as with women. I'm not always great at conversation with guys. It really depends on the subject. I know that I should just pretend I'm talking to a guy when talking to girls but my brain doesnt seem to be able to do that.
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sundayraver
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| Jago wrote: | Not as much with guys as with women. I'm not always great at conversation with guys. It really depends on the subject. I know that I should just pretend I'm talking to a guy when talking to girls but my brain doesnt seem to be able to do that.
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So it sounds like (like me and most guys) that you need to work on your inner game.
easier said than done but try to see them as people you're not trying to pick up, just a friendly chat and try not to see them as beautiful women that u wana bone.
I would suggest Tylers RSD dvds IMO these are a must have. and inner game try Hypnotica and Steve P |
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