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MSmith19
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 Posted: Tue Jul 08, 2008 6:24 am Post subject: Most Important Parts of Openers |
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| What are the key components or parts that an opener should display, include and portray in your opinion? I want to start making some of my own openers but am not sure what the most important parts are to include as to get the best response. Thanks! |
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JSmooth
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| Posted: Tue Jul 08, 2008 6:56 pm Post subject: Re: Most Important Parts of Openers |
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| MSmith19 wrote: | | What are the key components or parts that an opener should display, include and portray in your opinion? I want to start making some of my own openers but am not sure what the most important parts are to include as to get the best response. Thanks! |
Obviously you want your opener to be interesting and not any kind of creepy topics or anything like that. You want them to be something from your life to be congruent with who you are. I also encourage embedding DHV spikes in openers. Here is an example of something I may use.
I do a lot of online game, and have friends that do so an opener I created is..."Let me get your opinion on something....I can only stay for a second because I'm here with friends...would you date anybody you met on myspace? Get this, my past girlfriend xxxx met this guy on Myspace and they starting talking a bit, and now he wants to date her. She asked me what she should do. what do you think?"
YES - What if something crazy happens to her...maybe she gets abducted by aliens or joins the circus it'd be all my fault. LOL 
NO - Where is your sense of adventure at?
See how I embedded the pre-selection spike with my past girlfriend. Also, I've planned a response to both possible answers. I know what I'm going to say regardless of what she says. |
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MSmith19
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| Posted: Tue Jul 08, 2008 11:05 pm Post subject: |
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| So questions/opinions, with added DHV or time constraint to show superiority and desirability. Anything else? Ofcourse the presentation and tone are important too; confidence, power and enigma. What else? |
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bigjamiemac
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ok i couldnt find ne were to post this so here i go lol...well yesterday this hb9 was talking to me and my buddys at the race track were i race and she was telling us about this line a guy opened her with and it cracked me up so i gotta share with everyone!!
pua-hey were you raised on a chicken farm?
hb-haha no why?
pua-cus you sure know how to raise a cock!
i cracked up and she said it was the funniest line ever used on her and if he would have been able to keep her attention she would have went home with him so if ya got balls use this one lol |
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Stetson
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| Posted: Sun Jul 13, 2008 10:33 pm Post subject: |
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| bigjamiemac wrote: | ok i couldnt find ne were to post this so here i go lol...well yesterday this hb9 was talking to me and my buddys at the race track were i race and she was telling us about this line a guy opened her with and it cracked me up so i gotta share with everyone!!
pua-hey were you raised on a chicken farm?
hb-haha no why?
pua-cus you sure know how to raise a cock!
i cracked up and she said it was the funniest line ever used on her and if he would have been able to keep her attention she would have went home with him so if ya got balls use this one lol |
LOL! Only one word to the man who pulled this... Respect. |
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V1V
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IOD, neg, false time constraint, dhv, a relative reason of why you are talking to her and kino in the first 15 seconds. 3 second rule.
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Ezo
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| Quote: | pua-hey were you raised on a chicken farm?
hb-haha no why?
pua-cus you sure know how to raise a cock! |
Fun? Yes. A good opener... No.
You would need very good inner game to pull this off and run direct game. Basically it breaks most rules of an indirect opener, it shows interest immediately, it sounds like a pick-up line, it is cheesy, it does not engage her in conversation and it is not interesting.
Still, try it and let us know if it works. |
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