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Stealth7
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 Posted: Thu Feb 21, 2008 1:33 am Post subject: Here's a good idea to fix your social shyness! |
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Sometimes I go into a shell. However, sometimes I'm a extrovert and talk to almost everyone; well maybe not eveyrone but the ones I choose to.
If I'm familiar with someone, it's easy but I make it reward for pushing myself to talk to strangers. Once I feel that rush of adreniline, I love it. This is what you get when sarging and you actually talk with a HB. Your blood starts pumping and you feel in the "zone"!
Mystery says it takes 3 warm-up approaches to get into a social and fun state. Try it and follow the three second rule! What's that? Within the approach make sure you do the approach within three seconds of eye contact. If you fail to do so then she'll think your a coward or a pussy. You don't want that, do you? I wouldn't! However, does it matter what a n thinks of you? I don't think so because their many women to game out there. There's more women than men in the world. You won't have a probably getting shot down a couple of times. Just look forward to other women you plan on gaming! |
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darkme_legendary
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| Posted: Mon Jun 09, 2008 10:11 pm Post subject: Re: Here's a good idea to fix your social shyness! |
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Mystery says it takes 3 warm-up approaches to get into a social and fun state.
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Why don't you get in a social state when you want? Do you really have to be in a social state in order to have fun/get the girl?
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If you fail to do so then she'll think your a coward or a pussy.
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Actually, this is a bad belief to have. It may be true in 1 out of 100 situations. She lives more into a disqualifying paradigm and most of the times she doesn't even look for people that want to approach her.
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You don't want that, do you? I wouldn't! However, does it matter what a n thinks of you?
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Wanna make someone feel guilty for no reason?
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I don't think so because their many women to game out there. There's more women than men in the world. You won't have a probably getting shot down a couple of times. Just look forward to other women you plan on gaming! |
Obviously, this is true..logically. The logical part doesn't have a chance in the face of the irrationality of emotions. |
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Abdul-aAfc
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bluespruce
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| do you find it harder to approach HB4/5 more than HB9, cuz i feel the HB4 is to shy and self conscience to really talk |
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Wharris1985
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| Yeah me and bluespruce were out sarging and ran into this HB5 and I thought I'd try to open her up for him. I ran some stuff on her, and just tried to talk to her in general. She was a waitress by the way, but I just couldn't hook her at all. I felt like she was intimidated. Me and Him were saying maybe its almost easier to talk to a HB8-9-10. What do you guys think? Or was I just THAT bad lol.. i guess she never even gave me the chance to comfort her. oh well |
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Wharris1985
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| Yeah me and bluespruce were out sarging and ran into this HB5 my other friend was really in to. So I thought I'd try to get some practice and try to open her up for him. I ran some stuff on her, and just tried to talk to her in general. She was a waitress by the way, but I just couldn't hook her at all. I felt like she was intimidated. Me and Him were saying maybe its almost easier to talk to a HB8-9-10. What do you guys think? Or was I just THAT bad lol.. i guess she never even gave me the chance to comfort her. oh well |
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