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cymbal
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 Posted: Thu Jan 03, 2008 11:10 am Post subject: I saw the girl I was seeing at the bar! Did I act OK?? |
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What would you do in this situation??
So about a month ago I met this girl at a party where I F closed...I've been kinda seeing her from time to time and tonight, I asked if she wanted to hang out. She said she was busy so I decided to go out with a friend of mine. We went to this bar and after being there for about 5 minutes, she calls me...I don't answer and she comes up to me playfully saying, "I can't believe you didn't even notice me!" (I really didn't notice her though...) And she totally threw me off guard and I was totally stumbling on my words...I think I did alright and talked to her date really shortly, hugged her, and went back to talking with my friend...We originally came there to PUA but now, I was in such a weird state I just wanted to get out of there...after about 30 minutes, I went up to both of them, hugged her and said "nice meeting you" to her date...we ended up going to some other bar and ultimately number closed using that story  I am afraid I might have messed up a bit and shown a lower value of myself...What could I have done better? |
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Marco Polo
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| What is done is done, but she is not worthy of you paying any attention to her anymore. Instead of speaking and spending precious time on her, you sould have game other girls. But no big harm done. Go on with your life and don`t make that mistake again. |
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minijag
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Not really if the post above mine, answers your question or has any real value to it.
It sounds like you did okay. She said you she was busy, and then you didn't act needy back to her. You both randomly ended up at the same bar. Giving you value that you don't need her to have fun. She probably was thinking about you the rest of the night (having you on her mind when you aren't around will work wonders as you can imagine.) It sounds like you acted all akward which happens. It probably won't happen again though. Depending on how bad you acted, either she didn't even notice or she did but its very much recoverable.
I remember gaming this girl from work and we went out for ice cream, and I saw this girl I knew from my circle of friends (sort of she just appeared like a month ago.) But anyways, for some reason it REALLY fucked me over, I got tongue tied when I saw her. I was not expecting it and it just threw me off my tempo. When I caught myself in this state (You know what I mean since you were in it), I tried recovering pretty much immediately afterwards trying to be all PUA. I tried to introducing them to eachother, i forgot my dates name. it was pretty bad. Still F closed though.. eventually...
This probably doesn't really help, but only gives you hope lol. |
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Daywalker225xxxx
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| Posted: Sat Sep 13, 2008 6:17 pm Post subject: I saw the girl I was seeing at the bar! Did I act OK?? |
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Everybody gets thrown for a loop sometimes, Hell, it happens to me too, but I recalibrate and go on. You did fine, man, it was a learning experience too, so now you'll be less likely to make the same mistake again.  |
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