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piccadilly
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 Posted: Tue Jul 25, 2006 12:26 pm Post subject: Still waiting on her replying 10 email |
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On Monday morning I emailed 2 ladies I met at a party on Friday. Said we really should meet up sometime, say midweek for coffee. I've haven't heard back yet.
I know, learn to accept rejection or, maybe they will reply later. |
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wiggles
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Well, maybe you should rather have waited like till tuesday?or even better wednesday to set up a ''get together'' on thursday!
Wait no less than 4 days and let them know when ? it shows confidence
If no reply wait a week and try again if no response cut them off  |
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Ice
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The truth is that maybe you should have wait a bit more before writing emails to them.
Another thing, that is the only thing that you put in your email?? I prefer to put at the very end the "date idea", before that you should have show to them that you are a fun guy, like David DeAngelo email example , that is a great idea from which you can develop your own.
I prefer also to make appointments via phone, and not email, its more personal for me, and perhaps works better.
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piccadilly
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| Posted: Wed Jul 26, 2006 7:55 pm Post subject: Got reply from lady I met at party on Friday. |
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Well after waiting I got a reply from one of the ladies this afternoon.
Email said let's meet up for a drink sometime.
So I called her at 8.30pm tonight.'Hi its me from the party on Fri. How's your day been?
Her ''With friends about to have dinner- salad
Me Yeah it's hot.
Her - what about you- I'm about to cook a steak.
I said I'm free Tuesday (This is Wednesday) to meet up.
She= Next week ?!
Said she's about to go to dinner and will call me on Friday or during weekend.
Yes I did have point written out. Didn't want to come across as weak if I said ok to do earlier. Suppose I should have back tracked when she sounded suprised at Tuesday next week. Thought about negging her but didn' t know how to .
Left it at that and said look forward to her call.
Think I'll send her a text message on tomorrow or Friday saying I was a little hasty and might be able to see her sooner. |
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Ice
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next time try not to finish in a position in which you have to wait her call, that situation will rise your anxiety and you will sound needy. Finish the conversations always in your ways, keep the ball in your court.
Let me know how things continue, good luck
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expat_of_love
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Move on! If your target is interested she won't wait. Emails are so simple to send. She would have replied immediately. No girl should ever make you wait! Stand up for yourself. Demand respect.
Remember, only target girls that will find you interesting. Don't buy into the American B.S. about females wanting an equal partner. I call it "DATING DOWN". Younger, poorer, less cool, etc. Those are the girls you should go for. It is in their blood to look for someone who can protect them. [/b] |
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Impact
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"On Monday morning I emailed 2 ladies I met at a party on Friday. Said we really should meet up sometime, say midweek for coffee. I've haven't heard back yet."
Well... this isn’t exactly the most unique way of getting someone to leave their busy schedule full of men, most of which are so called 'puas' themselves.. to be with you now is it?
Where is the adventure, excitement? why arnt you stimulating any emotions? you have to make it so that your numbers and dates are solid beforehand in order for no flakes to occur. There’s allot of little bits you have to add and your calibration has to be fine tuned too. For example did you qualify them? the reason why you like them and the reason they stand out from the other women you know?.. Could have been alot of things, look at your game.
I usually say.. one sec let me actually read what I SMS the last girl..
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Here we are
"Hey I'm free on Friday! Id like a shopping assistant! ie bag carrying buddy! you in?"
"Hey, Going out on Friday for a adventure to hunt a present! thinking of perfume! they say women have a better smell then men so your in, 1:30 pm at Hyde park! and dress down, bring thongs not heels!"
"Hey, I'll be in the city on Friday, only there for a hour or two, your coming along!! be at pit street mall at 2!"
Again you have to calibrate man, it all depends on the type of person you made yourself out to be beforehand.
"we really should meet up"
Why? don't use words like 'really' they make people sound to needy.
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