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veryEnglish87 PUA Forum Enthusiast
Joined: 13 Apr 2007 Posts: 73
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Posted: Wed Jun 13, 2007 11:45 am Post subject: So angry.... |
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Well kinda.
I went on a date last week with a girl. All went pretty well, few IOIs, no kiss close though. My fault.
Anyway, I sent her a message a couple of days later to say I enjoyed the date and also because I wanted to embed a little something. She messages me five days later, although she has logged on loads since, and all she says is:
!!!
I'm a little bit miffed at this as you might expect. Lol. Is it best to just ignore her or neg her on it?
I thought I might wait a bit and then send her something like: "Is that the best your lady brain could come up with in a whole week? Wouldn't bother next time!
Thoughts? Suggestions? |
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Methuselah PUA Forum Leader
Joined: 30 Dec 2006 Posts: 858
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Posted: Wed Jun 13, 2007 11:50 am Post subject: |
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| Ignore her. Saying what you suggested shows too much interest and effort on your part. (you talking about the week means you noticed it was that long since you spoke, etc) |
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Romeo7 PUA Forum Zealot
Joined: 23 Feb 2007 Posts: 404
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Posted: Fri Jun 15, 2007 12:22 am Post subject: |
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Mhhm
I dont know if Im right
but as I read your post
it reminded me when I used to be more AFC
when I would take girls to date and not try anything
maybe with that "!!!!" she's telling you
"why didnt you try something!!!??? you dumbass"
like, you dissapointed her somehow
sorry man, thats just what came to my mind
have you talked to her on the phone? |
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SenorSuave PUA Forum Enthusiast
Joined: 07 Apr 2007 Posts: 70
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Posted: Fri Jun 15, 2007 3:42 am Post subject: |
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| Yea, ignore her for awhile; she'll come around. And next time don't forget to make your advances. But all in all you shouldn't see this as a huge setback, just another chance to improve. |
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BlueSeed PUA Forum Enthusiast
Joined: 06 May 2007 Posts: 39
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Posted: Fri Jun 15, 2007 8:51 am Post subject: |
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Answer this:
" ??? "
(i am no kidding) |
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osiris Member of PUA Forum
Joined: 04 Apr 2007 Posts: 106
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Posted: Fri Jun 15, 2007 9:47 am Post subject: |
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| tell you and her are gonna go out somewhere else and make it fun. Then actually do something about it. Also try to be a little vague about some stuff to make her continually think about you. |
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