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Aelfwine
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 Posted: Thu Jun 14, 2007 5:03 pm Post subject: She says shes not ready |
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I met this girl i liked and it kinda looked like she likes me too but... when i tried to ask her out she said that her ex with whom she dated for 3 years dumped her a month ago and shes not ready to start something new.
Do you guys think that there could be a way to bypass this?=) |
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BlueSeed
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| Posted: Thu Jun 14, 2007 6:10 pm Post subject: |
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Tell her that nor you want something serious too.That you want something soft and something 'low' in speed.
When she finally begin to calm herself and get rid of the anxiety, then the field is open for you.
Also another good tactic is to make her feel (STRONGLY) that she is going to loose you..
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But first of all, are you sure that she is not lying? |
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LordGrin
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| Posted: Thu Jun 14, 2007 11:53 pm Post subject: ... |
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yeah dude, i think i agree with Blueseed
but first of all u should kinda game on her a lil bit,
play arnd, show DHV, neg her etc. or do w/evr method
you follow. but anyways, basically its vvvvery important
4 u to rmbr that u r the prize not her, and she shud also
bare in mind that she's the 1 losing u and ur not the 1
losing her(even if its not true)
so u shud hide any sort of neediness and like Blueseed said,
another good tactic is to make her feel (STRONGLY) that she is going to loose you..
and that is a VERY powerful move.
anyways, i hope it helpd. gud luck man |
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Reddro
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| just to help you out a lil have you built enough attraction. if so have you built enough comfort with her. usually when you have a good comfortable atmosphere she is more likely to give in to you. and make sure you have a strong frame. a frame is a big thing when you pu. also i agree with blueseed but you also have to remember that you don't make it a date. call it a get together. when on the phone (if you did n-close her) keep telling her that you have another call and to hold on for a sec, but only do this 3-4 times. this will show her you DHV by having so many friends. and you have to act like you are going to go have fun at the mall and you are just inviting her to meet you there. like say this "hey i m goin to the mall to pick out some shoes, you should meet me there." if you have enough comfort then she will deff be there to see you. and make sure to give her a time lol. hope this helps. |
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Difference
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| Yeah Reddro has got it. Make any meetings completely informal. If they are the night before, spur of the moment kind of things, it will show that you aren't thinking about it heaps, and just had an idea to hang out. |
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Mike_pt
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Just to follow up with Reddro and the mall idea! If u two are more at the budy level, try the non-date-date method... Make sure she feels as if its just something simple like lunch or something. She is going to think ur needy if u continue to bug her about a official date.
I had the same problem with a girl at work..... This is how i handled it.
After a bit of game playing she decided to meet me for lunch... Once we got the mall, grabbed food, then told her i had to buy a toy for a cousin so we went into one of the giant toy stores (Toy's R US) once we got in there it gave us an excuse to run amuck for a couple of hours.... this allowed her to relax and drop her guard! She ended up asking me out for that night....which ended in the back seat of my car! |
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