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Wicked Nang
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 Posted: Mon Jan 07, 2008 4:31 am Post subject: First night out |
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Tonight was my first night out after deciding to give this PUA thing a try... It went well! Not well enough that I got a close of any sort (no kiss, numbers etc). However, I did talk to 30 or so people, and got told about other places I should hang out, come to next weekend, etc. Not bad for a night out alone!
The 3 second rule was vital to my success in opening. When I first got there I was kind of nervous to be alone, and sort of thinking to myself "Do I really have the guts to try this shit out, or am I just going to stand by the wall all night?". But then as soon as I went in, I decided to just go for it and it lead me to bouncing around the room all night talking to different people, opening sets and getting into conversations with groups and singles, and generally having a great time. woo!
oh and this one seemed to work pretty well... Find a girl that's by herself sort of checking things out, or waiting for someone and just say "You look bored". It's kind of an opener and a neg at the same time. Because then she has to defend herself and be like "Oh, uh no, not bored!" or whatever, and then she goes on to explain who she's waiting for, or what she's actually doing just standing there. |
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Virgil07
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| Yea man just keep at it, and don't be a slacker. Because slacking won't you nowhere. |
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M_G2009
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| Posted: Tue Aug 19, 2008 1:43 pm Post subject: I need your help on this |
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I need some help how to get over this before I go clubs on Saturday all week I will know all of my openers and know what to do when going up to set’s. When I do go out on the Saturday but when I enter the clubs I will start to forget all my martial.
It will get worse when I am in club like If I Shaw girl which is a HB9 or any girl I want to approach in the club I start get this doubt coming thought my head Such as she not looking for a guy like me or If girl makes eye contact and look at me and she is (7 to9 HB) I would think she is look at next a next person behind me or something else but I would be me.
P.S So I end up not Speak to any sets in club and this has happen to in the last 3 times I went out and this just come from no way
I just wondering can any on give any suggest how I can get over this |
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Lucky D
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The VERY first time I went out to a club, I wasnt old enough, and in consequence didnt get in. But I picked up 2 chicks in the waiting line outside. I don't know if it helps not actually being INSIDE the club, but just outside.
Go out with some friends, some guys or girls if you can.
It just sounds like a classic case of approach anxiety, so you gotta check out subjects about getting rid of that. Practise during day, talk to lotsa girls, start conversations wit ramdom pple, create your immunity against fear. Once thats done, you gotta continue working on it, cause it just disapears if you stop talking to pple and you'll be stuck wit the problem all ova again. |
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