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Beschatten
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 Posted: Mon Jul 07, 2008 4:52 pm Post subject: A Beautiful Conversation. |
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A conversation with a girl should remain beautiful. You could voice your opinion about anything, as long as you have some deep insight on it that uses her imagination. Challenge her. It sets you apart from the others. This is your objective when you first meet her. Set yourself apart from the others.
At some point during a conversation, she's going to ask you questions. It could be anything. Make it simple, say it slow, describe your answer, make her imagine what you are talking about. There is a difference between understanding and imagining. You want her to imagine it.
If you can work her imagination she will be facinated by you. It's very simple.
Magic tricks don't build attraction. Facination does. You don't need cold readings, routines, or even canned openers. These are there to create facination which leads to attraction.
To grab her attention, for example, at a shopping mall and you see her looking at clothes, approach her and speak in statements. She'll feel more comfortable with you. A question will automatically make you come off as curious to what she is doing giving her value. You will be like everyone else-creepy.
You:"I like the blue skirt better than the white one"
HB: "Oh.. Really? Why's that"
You " It brings the color of your eye's out. By the way I'm Beschatten".
How simple was that? You can automatically go into a soul gazing routine right on the spot after that. Speak with delicacy and precision. You could honestly say anything you want when you approach.
There is a time and place for everything. Show her you are fun, be flirty, yet also take the time to be serious and show her you have serious thoughts. Show her a multitude of conversational skills.
After building comfort you can easily transition into different topics. I use a model of first starting off with relationships, then I transition into sex and how it occurred in the relationships. Soon I say things that I like about sex, what I want when I have sex, what I want to give the girl during sex, and how often I like to have it. Don't ever ask her what she wants. Her values will revolve around yours. This demonstrates a lot of things, but most of all she will feel about 10 times more comfortable talking about sex with you, imagine having sex with you, and it automatically begins the process of building up sexual tension.
"My favorite thing about sex is the first time I put it inside of the her. It's a feeling I can't describe. It's overwhelming and for that split second I feel so connected. The warmth is overwhelming as well".
A statement like that will get her imagining it, and it shows her you're not just a manwhore. Some women like that, but all women like a passionate man.
After an escalation of physical contact and sexual tension, you may begin making your moves. Use SOIs. K-close. Caveman her. It is all up to you. |
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Okiokdan
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| Posted: Mon Jul 07, 2008 6:08 pm Post subject: |
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Nice post! I like reading your topics lately!  |
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rott
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| Posted: Tue Jul 08, 2008 2:43 am Post subject: |
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| I agree, interesting post. |
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on_point
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| Posted: Thu Jul 10, 2008 6:43 am Post subject: |
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| diggin the statement that fascination builds attraction. super important. |
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_Fiction
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| Posted: Thu Jul 10, 2008 8:28 am Post subject: |
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| nice man, i really like ur stuff |
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octopus23
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| Posted: Mon Jul 14, 2008 3:10 am Post subject: |
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| nice post man! |
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Beschatten
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| Posted: Mon Jul 14, 2008 9:41 am Post subject: |
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| Thank you. just a friendly reminder. |
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Marcus87
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| Posted: Mon Jul 14, 2008 7:34 pm Post subject: |
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| nice post really helps with a lot of things |
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Beschatten
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| Posted: Wed Jul 16, 2008 12:19 pm Post subject: |
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| I suggest you guys to read Juggler's conversational jijitsu e-book or any juggler book for that fact. he is pure genius. |
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brand79
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| Posted: Sat Aug 16, 2008 4:28 am Post subject: |
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| what about gamblers books does he teach conversational skills? |
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mbkb24
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| Posted: Mon Aug 18, 2008 10:33 am Post subject: |
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| nice dude, very thought ful |
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| tried it yesterday worked like a charm going to do again today |
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