Street openers

joninty · Posted: Sat Jan 12, 2008 2:59 pm Post subject: Street openers

Hey,
I'm tired of letting beautiful girls pass me by on the street.
I've done a search but I didn't find much in the way of straight up cold street openers.So I'm starting my own thread.
Heres the scenario, you see a cute girl on the street, maybe some eye contact.....what next?

Student X · Posted: Sat Jan 12, 2008 4:11 pm Post subject:

You go out and experiement saying different things, record your results and learn from the results, which you cant get from asking questions on a forum : )

I would say something situationally unthreatening.

joninty · Posted: Sat Jan 12, 2008 9:56 pm Post subject: know the streets!

ok but I'm looking for general street openers...any time any street.

Flare · Posted: Sat Jan 12, 2008 10:10 pm Post subject:

if u know where she is going... like if u take a bus to a mall and when u get off everyone is clearly walking to the mall

and you know for sure that she is going there as well you can be like

u- Hey im kinda lost im trying to get to blabla mall
hb10- oh well im goin there too il show you where it is lol

then ur like walking with her go into a bunch of routines and stuff lol

gravesRR7 · Posted: Sat Jan 12, 2008 10:37 pm Post subject:

there are lots of good ideas on youtube from this guy

[link]

I forget his name. He's a well-known PUA, and he does lots of creative street pickups that you can see.

there's one great one where he kiss-closes within 2 minutes or something. It's great. i'll take a look for it

gravesRR7 · Posted: Sat Jan 12, 2008 10:38 pm Post subject:

Here ya go Smile

[link]

Korova · Posted: Thu Jun 26, 2008 11:20 am Post subject:

nice` openers on the link

Julez · Posted: Wed Jul 16, 2008 7:32 pm Post subject:

I have found that it is very hard to do an opener on a girl who is walking in the opposite direction to you if you go up to her frontal and stop her abruptly she will put her gaurd up, so make sure you approch from the side as in walk beside her then open

if you live in a big city this is what i use, I approach a group of girls with a wing (often near a special feature of the city e.g large mall) then you say this

PUA: hey! me and my friend are here on vacation would you take a picture of us over here

when none of the girls volunteer to get into the picture you say

PUA: do you think me and my friends want to look like a bunch of loners to everyone back home you have to get into it to (grab the two targets with arm around shoulder holding her arm/elbow)

this is where kino is essential, get it going and get her feeling comfortable start a conversation (dont forget negs) while your taking the photo i here the mall is good do you guys go there blah blah blah (when the other girl comes back to you with the camera look at it and say

PUA: Im really not liking this you dont look friendly enough

Now put both arms around her one on back of waist and one on front or hand on lower back it assertes your dominance or if you think you could get it ask for a kiss on the cheek

again continue the conversation you have two options

OPTION 1: Were going to be in town for a while can i have your number maybe we can hook up and do something for a day they give you their numbers and then later you call saying i heard their was this cool club/mall/theme park and you go and you keep flirting/charming and getting those all important IOIS then you have to kiss close at end of day because if they have went with you in the first place thats what they will want

Julez · Posted: Wed Jul 16, 2008 7:39 pm Post subject:

OPTION 2: you say where are you guys heading they hopefully say somewhere you dont plan on going then ( if it doesnt sound important) you say awh forget that common with us to blah blah if youve done 10/10 on the whole approach they'll go if not and they dont want to go use option 1

Now your probably wondering what about after when i want to go out with this girl again and she eventually realises im no from out of town if you have charmed her and attracted her properly and she actually is attracted to you then you use this line at the end of the day straight after the kiss: I have a secret for you (what?) you have to promise not to be angry (I wont) are you sure (yea) Ive lied to you today (about what?!)(this will create the all important tension) then you simply say im not from out of town i just saw you and i had to say hi.

This technique is more for one nighters but it can work on buoilding relations

follow the basic rules,

negs (dont be two keen)
show your alpha male- If you try this out it will work-fact!

Julez · Posted: Wed Jul 16, 2008 7:40 pm Post subject:

OPTION 2: you say where are you guys heading they hopefully say somewhere you dont plan on going then ( if it doesnt sound important) you say awh forget that common with us to blah blah if youve done 10/10 on the whole approach they'll go if not and they dont want to go use option 1

Now your probably wondering what about after when i want to go out with this girl again and she eventually realises im no from out of town if you have charmed her and attracted her properly and she actually is attracted to you then you use this line at the end of the day straight after the kiss: I have a secret for you (what?) you have to promise not to be angry (I wont) are you sure (yea) Ive lied to you today (about what?!)(this will create the all important tension) then you simply say im not from out of town i just saw you and i had to say hi.

This technique is more for one nighters but it can work on buoilding relations

follow the basic rules,

negs (dont be two keen)
show your alpha male- If you try this out it will work-fact!

Gopher · Posted: Thu Jul 17, 2008 7:10 am Post subject: days

if the girl(s) are not slutty and used to being hit on or trying to attract, then i find direct openers work very well, especially if the girl isnt particularly dressed up, and not expecting it. i read someone else on here (can't remember who, sry for not giving credit!) use "you're the best looking girl(s) i've seen all week... i had to stop and say that otherwise i'd be kicking myself." at this point you can talk about anything cause they're ussually a little taken aback. ex: what are you up too, how do you know eachother, comment on something nearby or anything off the top of your head. tried it worked well for me to open with, but didnt go anywhere as i had to get back to work, lol.

frogga · Posted: Sun Jul 20, 2008 12:15 pm Post subject:

you wont beleive this but Tyler Durden has an opener for the street. You literally just walk up to her and stand there. Just stand there. Usually she laughs and you start laughing and then you start the game

Devious · Posted: Sun Jul 20, 2008 3:51 pm Post subject:

Huh... a 100% body language opener. Interesting, but I would probably blow it myself. Either you'd get "You're in my way--move it!", or it would open her, but then you probably have to transition to something situational. So... mildly better than a situational opener, but with a possibility of failure?

There any vids of Tyler Durden using this? If I can see how its supposed to be done body language-wise, I'll field test it myself.

NbBurna · Posted: Thu Aug 07, 2008 8:23 am Post subject:

try this:

from over your shoulder say "Don't you hate it when random people start talking to you?". HB will usually just smile, then you go into a stronger opener routine. Heres an example:

NbBurna: Don't you hate it when random people just start talking to you? (over the shoulder when shes behind you)
HB: *smile*
NbBurna: I need a female opinion on something really quick actually. Do you think kissing (dramatic pause)...is cheating?
HB: Yes (they will always say yes)
NbBurna: Well hold on, you haven't heard the full story yet. My friend has been bugging me for a while now cuz he doesn't know what to do. He's had this girlfriend for a few weeks now and he really digs her. Then, last weekend she went to a party, got fucking wasted and made-out...with a girl. So, tell me now, is your answer the same?
HB: blahblah

you can use a different opinion opener or anything, but i just think it lightens the mood if you start with the "Don't you hate it when random people start talking to you?"

try it out

Ammon · Posted: Fri Aug 15, 2008 7:00 am Post subject:

I just walk by a girl slightly, turn back suddenly and ask her if she knows where (blank) is. When she is finished telling you you introduce yourself and go from there...

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