Posted: Fri Jul 25, 2008 6:06 pm Post subject: Quick NLP trick to use
I've been studying NLP furiously after reading most PUA books and developed a tasty little trick you're welcome to try...
When you've got past the rapport stage and your chatting comfortably, everytime she or you cracks a joke, snap your fingers and laugh. She won't notice you're doing it, you can also use this after planting a seductive seed during Evo phase shift or something.
Then, everytime the same situation occurs (be it laughing, getting her horny etc) snap your fingers as you do it. Then later, you can do it and her subconsious mind will notice.
Example.
I used it when cracking jokes with a few girls, the one I wanted to notice it didn't, but her subconsious did as later in the evening we were walking down the road, I pointed at a BMW I liked, snapped my fingers and said "wow, look at that car" and she LAUGHED! I thought I'd spare her the embaressment of me asking why she was laughing, I knew why, her mind had related my fingers snapping to laughter and hapiness...
I later used my fingers to get her into bed
It's a nice little trick and it's effective. For reading material i'd suggest starting with 'introducing NLP'.
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Posted: Thu Jul 31, 2008 11:48 am Post subject:
soup wrote:
this is just simple anchoring, right?
Yes, that is exactly what anchoring is. I just wanted to chime in and say that snapping your fingers sounds like it would make for a much stronger anchor than simply touching a certain part of her arm or a simple visual cue like a gesture.
I wonder why the Speed Seduction guys don't teach to use snapping as an anchor. Hm. Props, Jeff.
from what ive read it would have a greater impact depending on what a persons primary system of communication..forget the exact term..
i mean if someone is primarily auditory it would have a greater effect..
but if someone was primarily kinesthetic it wold have as large an effect as touching their arm etc..thats just applying, maybe wrongly what ive learnt
i definatly see where youre coming from, when i first heard of anchoring clicking my fingers was the first gesture i thought of.
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Posted: Sun Aug 03, 2008 8:55 pm Post subject:
Awesome technique man, just a question though. I've read all this stuff about how to apply an anchor but how do you remove them? Or do they just kinda wear out after a certain period of time?
Awesome technique man, just a question though. I've read all this stuff about how to apply an anchor but how do you remove them? Or do they just kinda wear out after a certain period of time?
I'm not pro here, so please don't take my reply as the ultimate truth, but I don't think they will wear out. Why? If you anchor X to Y, and you go on a vacation, the target will still have it anchored when you come back. Her subconscious will know it for her.
However, I do not know if you can re-condition a target. Such as, stop snatching fingers will make her un-anchor since the snatching is no longer present.
from what ive read it would have a greater impact depending on what a persons primary system of communication..forget the exact term..
i mean if someone is primarily auditory it would have a greater effect..
but if someone was primarily kinesthetic it wold have as large an effect as touching their arm etc..thats just applying, maybe wrongly what ive learnt
i definatly see where youre coming from, when i first heard of anchoring clicking my fingers was the first gesture i thought of.
Awesome technique man, just a question though. I've read all this stuff about how to apply an anchor but how do you remove them? Or do they just kinda wear out after a certain period of time?
I'm not pro here, so please don't take my reply as the ultimate truth, but I don't think they will wear out. Why? If you anchor X to Y, and you go on a vacation, the target will still have it anchored when you come back. Her subconscious will know it for her.
However, I do not know if you can re-condition a target. Such as, stop snatching fingers will make her un-anchor since the snatching is no longer present.
I'm eager to hear the answer from a pro.
A major point here is how much connection/ (Rapport) exists between you two, how often you do the anchoring and how big is the emotion built around the anchor.
Because we are talking about a subconcious level it works like a Trauma, it depends on how big is the trauma, it can last forever and every time the situation or action fire the anchor it produces the same feeling in the person, but since we are talking about a small anchor without too much repetition and use it will last some time, but it will slowly fade with time, if you stop doing it.
There are two major tools that you can use to have more effect...
1. Multiple Anchors / linking anchors; you can make her feel happy, excited and horny by linking all the emotions to the same anchor.
2. Making the feeling grow, Using some techniques like Imagination of heat and emotion flowing through the body and using commands like; FEEL how this HEAT GROWS in your body, reaching every part, How you feel * Anchor* YOU FEEL GOOD , now I want you to IMAGINE this heat ...
You can continue this until you have a very powerful anchor...
I want to try anchoring a scream and a touch to an orgasm, so every time I make the scream and touch that part of her body she gets the sensation of an orgasm or at least see if she gets horny...
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Posted: Tue Aug 05, 2008 11:36 am Post subject:
xfman wrote:
I want to try anchoring a scream and a touch to an orgasm, so every time I make the scream and touch that part of her body she gets the sensation of an orgasm or at least see if she gets horny...
You evil evil man lol............do it in a library!!!
Thanks for clearing that up anyway dude, I just didnt wanna anchor someone laughing then whenever someone clicks their fingers they laugh for the rest of their life lol.
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Posted: Tue Aug 05, 2008 12:01 pm Post subject:
_Chief_ wrote:
soup wrote:
this is just simple anchoring, right?
Yes, that is exactly what anchoring is. I just wanted to chime in and say that snapping your fingers sounds like it would make for a much stronger anchor than simply touching a certain part of her arm or a simple visual cue like a gesture.
I wonder why the Speed Seduction guys don't teach to use snapping as an anchor. Hm. Props, Jeff.
lol I just realized from reading the above posts that the reason I thought snapping your fingers would make a better anchor than other kinds of cues was because - I guess - I learn best through sound. I'm an auditory learner. You can even tell that by my language structure in my post, "snapping your fingers sounds like it would make for a much stronger anchor." I subconsciously chose to use the word "sound" instead of saying something like "I feel like that would make a stronger anchor," which would indicate that I would be a kinesthetic learner, which would mean that I would think a kino anchor would be more effective. Makes sense cuz I'm a musician.
Lots of interesting and great points in this topic.
That video had some amazing examples of anchors, especially during the comedian part, I use a lot of ones like that. I like to use snapping my fingers for an anchor on myself and when I'm teaching or in a discussion with someone and trying to sway them towards my point of view by highlighting important bits.
Xfman, I wouldn't try anchoring an orgasm with a scream, as it's rather unpleasant to the senses. If you want to create orgasms on command, then why not do it how David Shade teaches and tell her to "come like a good girl" or some variation of that?
Xfman, I wouldn't try anchoring an orgasm with a scream, as it's rather unpleasant to the senses. If you want to create orgasms on command, then why not do it how David Shade teaches and tell her to "come like a good girl" or some variation of that?
Well I was thinking a sound, not exactly a scream haha... but I will try it and let you know guys.
_Chief_ wrote:
_Chief_ wrote:
soup wrote:
this is just simple anchoring, right?
Yes, that is exactly what anchoring is. I just wanted to chime in and say that snapping your fingers sounds like it would make for a much stronger anchor than simply touching a certain part of her arm or a simple visual cue like a gesture.
I wonder why the Speed Seduction guys don't teach to use snapping as an anchor. Hm. Props, Jeff.
lol I just realized from reading the above posts that the reason I thought snapping your fingers would make a better anchor than other kinds of cues was because - I guess - I learn best through sound. I'm an auditory learner. You can even tell that by my language structure in my post, "snapping your fingers sounds like it would make for a much stronger anchor." I subconsciously chose to use the word "sound" instead of saying something like "I feel like that would make a stronger anchor," which would indicate that I would be a kinesthetic learner, which would mean that I would think a kino anchor would be more effective. Makes sense cuz I'm a musician.
weee self-analysis
there are many tests to know what type you are, but if you want to know if a person is visual/kino.../auditory check what type of words and expressions they use, such as the one Chief was talking about
Posted: Wed Aug 13, 2008 5:41 pm Post subject: Anchoring
Olfactori (smell) is the strongest trigger as is it the only sense that has direct cortical projection. Basicly find out her number one aftershave. and any other smells that make her horny. good thing is that they can be used to keep the girl in a constant state.
If you are going to click your fingers you will be fireing in 2 rep systems as it is bot a visual and auditory trigger. Using touch is very powerfull but you can build it up as much. It is hard to touch a girl 20 times in 5 mins (can be done however if you can do it and she dosent leg it you really dont need to do anything else but take her home.
If you want to be a bit more descreat mich I sujest taping your foot. You still mark in 2 rep systems and you can do it alot more often. Richard bandaler use's it as part of his analog marking when he is teaching.
Lastly re getting your girl to OG with an anchor.
I use to go-down on my ex and tease her for ages. As i did it I would reach up with my right hand and squeeze her waist as she came. Basicly it made her feel horny when ever it was fired. (loved useing it when we were arguing as she didnt even know I had instaled it).
If you really want to make a girl come using anchors best and most simple way with out teaching you alot about magnifing anchors and spining them is to anchor the moments just before the most amazing Og she has had (the get her to double it and doubel it again in her mind) on to one shoulder (do this 2-3 times) and then anchor the glowing feeling that she gest after (2-3 time) on the other shoulder. Put your hand on the first anchor squeeze tightly and then fire the second anchor (still holding the first) her brian will be forced to "bridge the gap" between 2 very powerfull feelings and will do this by generating the og to match.
There is somthing called a sliding anchor that can make almost anything as strong as you want. I saw it used on a girl once as a demonstartion and she couldnt get of the floor for about 3 mins in the end some camra cure had to lift her into a chair because her legs were to wobbely. Any way Hope this helps and sorry about the crap spelling
