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Theasianbigpoppa
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 Posted: Wed Jul 23, 2008 11:31 am Post subject: is this flirting? or is she legit getting pissed? opinions.. |
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ok so I sarged this girl at a party a couple weeks ago and I was negging her by saying you should wear your hair down..and threw a couple more negs and things were going smooth so I myspaced her because I didnt get her phone
ME
hey there sparky. (I nicknamed her)
 
HER
haha hi... how are you doin?
ME
soo check this... I have an internship interview next week and im reviewing your application to be my personal cosmetologist... i'm going to need my weave fixed and my nails did... I hope your not rusty after being out of cosmetology school
HER
ok one our not black ur korean you don't dun need nutin did! okay!? second i don't do nails... i don't think i would quit my job for a one time deal... and um what weave? also, ... y would you see my app?
ME
ok one just cause youz all pasty dont be hatin on mah skin
color! okay!?!?!?! second what do you have against nails?...
now you asked me some questions so i'll answer them..
"i don't think i would quit my job for a one time deal"- you
don't know the fun your missing out on sparky "and um what weave?"- my weave DUH... "also, ... y would you see my app?"
- I have a thing for women cosmetologists who get their
point across using numbered lists and who forget to put the
Y in your.... thats so hot Unfortunately though I don't know if its gonna work out though sorry Sabrina.
HER
oops i just sent a blank message! ok i think it is kewl how you turn everything around so it sound like you are rejecting me even though i told you no first! so whatever!
and i still don't get the whole weave thing?
ME
hey hey hey now miss thang.... lets not get too hasty.
its really a shame we can't hang out.. i'm starting to like your spunk
HER
yeahok, ... whatever! are you goin to desi's grad party ar are you one of those oh im only heathers' friend? kinda person
I didnt message her and I showed up at the party and she was wearing her hair down (i negged her before about it) and she looked interested I didnt get to talk to her though because I was talking to other girls so I myspaced her again
ME
you actually wore your hair down when I saw you....it didnt look all too shabby  ... I just might have take you out in public because now i'm not afraid to be seen with you haha
HER
Puh-Lease!!! who do you think you are? the freggin POPE? i don't think so ... and you should see it when it's straight! bi-atch! anyways here i am messaging you more... happy???
First of all that's pretty lame what she said but i'm wondering is she pissed? I'm thinking I should just pull the plug and stop talking to her but if you guys think she's still in flirting mode i'll reply to her.... |
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JSmooth
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| Posted: Wed Jul 23, 2008 12:35 pm Post subject: |
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Dude, please stop negging her! That is why she is pissed off. I don't neg 10s as much as you've negged this girl. Really man 2-3 good negs is all you need for most 9s and 10s. You have over negged this girl, and she's started to get pissed. At first it's fun and playful, but after a while she just thinks you're an @$$hole.
You don't have to stop communicating with her, just stop negging her and move on in the process.
As far as what to do the next times is you need to get some more practice in and get more calibrated to how many negs and things you use. You just pepper in a few negs when you first meet to show disinterest in group theory. However, not more than about 15 minutes later you show interest in return in A3 Male to Female Interest. |
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Theasianbigpoppa
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| Posted: Sat Jul 26, 2008 6:16 pm Post subject: |
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| thanks for your input i'll definitely lighten up on the negs next time I was trying to be C&F but I was being more cocky and not really too funny |
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