smiling while walking

supaflya3 · Posted: Tue Jul 15, 2008 6:36 am Post subject: smiling while walking

I know your supposed to smile while walking by a person while holding eye contact. Ive got the eye contact part down but how should I smile, I dont want know how big to smile or nothin, how long to hold it, someone please help this is a major downfall of my game.

Any pictures or websties that discuss this will work.

Cloak&Swagger · Posted: Tue Jul 15, 2008 1:26 pm Post subject:

Smiling when you enter a venue is suggested, ie when you walk into a bar you should have a noticeable smile and look like you're enjoying yourself. If you're running daygame and you're out on the streets, don't constantly have a big grin on your face, people will think you're crazy.

In these situations you should have a much more subtle smile. Go look at yourself in the mirror with your face completely relaxed. Now just barely start to smile, like you were going to smile but stopped partway through. That is what should be used in daygame.

Devious · Posted: Tue Jul 15, 2008 3:09 pm Post subject:

The rule I usually follow is not to smile at someone (even when you have eye contact) until they smile at you first. If you're not sure how you should smile, just match theirs.

Musterion · Posted: Wed Jul 16, 2008 12:52 am Post subject:

I thought this was quite a good way of doing it and I've had positive reactions from it.
It's from Cajun's blog.

jorger3 · Posted: Wed Jul 16, 2008 5:59 am Post subject:

smiling is big dude, 'cause some people can actually think ur crazy or just plain weird. I think it just depends on the situation, I've been into reading books and online threads for a good amount of time, but only about four months ago I started practicing daily and it's freakin scary how this works so well. It's true though, most of the times it's just a matter of matching a smile, remember mirroring theory

Facher · Posted: Mon Jul 21, 2008 10:59 am Post subject:

When I'm walking around in like.. a club, i always think "I own this damn club." and smile as if I actually owned it.

Try to make the smile authentic, and not a fake one.

alphamale_16 · Posted: Mon Jul 21, 2008 12:16 pm Post subject: Smiling

One of the best examples of seducing smiles is the one of George Clooney :

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The_Prince · Posted: Tue Jul 22, 2008 12:34 am Post subject:

just expirement with diferent thing some times if a girl smiles at me i look dicusted back DAVID D just like a smile that shows confidence just make shore you dramatic whatever you do YOU DONT HAVE TO SMILE experioment between smmiles spoiled milk look lol ect

grayfox · Posted: Sat Jul 26, 2008 5:05 am Post subject:

i gotta agree, experiment with different stuff
whether its wide, teeth showing smiles, a grin, or a smirk
try them all, see what gets the best results
if it helps, try thinking of something funny when you do it so the smile comes more naturally
or if you want one that shows confidence, think of a time when you did something really cool that people complemented you for, and think to yourself, wow i did that im the man

hopefully it hleps

fsidontknow · Posted: Sat Jul 26, 2008 9:36 am Post subject:

mostly at daytime I walk and smile with my eyes and slightly with my mouth but when meeting eye contact I slowely smile more

Hexxus · Posted: Sat Jul 26, 2008 7:39 pm Post subject:

Now here is a continuation on this topic -

How should one smile? I'm capeable of smiling very warmly to show that I am a nice person and genuinely comfortable with the person I'm smiling at....

Or I can smile like I'm just being friendly, as if to say "I'm just being pleasant and would rather you leave me alone".

Would one work over the other? Perhaps the latter would be a good IOD?

Mega · Posted: Mon Jul 28, 2008 12:31 am Post subject:

Right I think I can give some good advice on this.

To make your smile authentic and like-able you really have to mean it. It has to reflect all the great things that are happening in your life. To be successful with women, unless you want to be an actor, use canned lines, practice every movement and learn to fake every emotion, you have to take control of your life. Make sure new, exciting things are happening or at least look at what you do every day in such a way that you feel positive all the time.

You want your smile to convey optimism and contentment. These are feelings very hard to fake, they are the foundations of confidence. If your smile is supposed to make you LOOK confident, you have to FEEL content and optimistic. If you can convey those feelings to a girl you're walking towards, she will be excited to speak to you and pleased you chose to approach her, sharing your good cheer. A smile with eye contact says "You're part of the reason I'm in such a good mood,".

This is also why you should smile as much as possible, even just walking down the street when no one can see you. She's got to just be part of the reason, not the whole reason. If she thinks you're just a happy guy generally, she'll wonder what makes you that way. If you burst out into a big grin as soon as you catch her eye she'll probably be thinking "Ugh, creepy guy wants my attention. He looks like he's enjoying staring at me,".

Mega, 21
London

taggy · Posted: Mon Aug 11, 2008 11:32 pm Post subject:

i like mega's post

porktinez · Posted: Tue Aug 12, 2008 5:48 am Post subject:

Mega is right. Smile with your eyes to reflect confidence. Check out this link:

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sorin · Posted: Tue Aug 12, 2008 7:33 am Post subject:

@supafly3,

don't smile because you have to...
smile because you want to express your inner happiness...
wait... you don't feel happy inside?

well then start a way to feel that...
- listen to some good positive music (with positive lyrics too)
- do some sports to rise your level of energy
- tell yourself you are going to make someone happy today by giving them a genuine compliment like "you are beautiful. i would like to get to know you"... and make it honest to make it powerful!
- do what you like... go in a place where you're relaxed and meet women there... DON'T MAKE PICKUP A JOB!!!

Become relaxed first about your environment and then let things naturally flow and when you see a moment go for the girl... Smile

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