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Head First
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 Posted: Mon Jul 21, 2008 6:27 am Post subject: Wtf why did she flake and what do i do now |
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Last friday I had a date with a hb9 I found online.. It was her idea to meet up in the first place.. I thought the date went well. I picked her up in my pre owned car A bmw 745li witch screems HV (got a killer deal on it) and took her to a few chill ass bars on sunset blv. We had a super fun time and ended up buying coke off some random guy.. (I thought it was hella cool that i just scored some coke off some random guy what a way to problem slove) we ended up blowing lines in the bathroom of some bar and then walked around the strip tell about 3am holding hands and shooting the shit.
I took her back to her place and she invited me up. I went up to her place and we watched a movie and killed the rest of the blow. Holding hands was as far as i got on the keno, I wanted to k-close but she wouldnt stop talking (fucking coke) long enough for me to go in for the kill... I went home at about 7am... I didnt talk to her for a few days after words. I thought she may have had some buyers remorse..
About 3 or 4 days after we had are "date" she hit me up on aim asking me about something that had to do with work.. (i hired her to do some web design for me as an opener but thats a hole different can or worms) Then she asks me if I had a fun time on friday night... I thought that this was a shit test so i told her umm I ate a shit load of xanaxs (witch are chill pillz that make you black out) that night and dont remember much.. I dont know why I said that I just did...
So we had setup a date (sunday 8 days after are first date) to go shooting at the la gun club.. I had a feeling she might flake so i called her phone and no pick up.. I left a msg. saying i had A quick question and that was it. about an hour or so later she texts me saying "hey whats up? I have to cancel today, im at a concert and drunk, postpone?" I didnt reply. Im thinking i should just freez her out and act like nothing happend, and wait for her to contact me again.. any ideas.. thanks a shit ton. |
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Infamous110
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I think this might be a missing page from Catcher in the Rye!
Kissing is a good way to stop somebody talking.
Should have called her out on the concert. "We had plans, wtf?!"
Moving forward, chase her up on the work side of things and let her bring the conversation back to your meet, and if she doesn't I wouldn't bother. Afterall, as a high value guy I'm assuming that you want a less flakey girl. |
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Head First
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| Infamous110 wrote: | I think this might be a missing page from Catcher in the Rye!
Should have called her out on the concert. "We had plans, wtf?!"
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LMAO, I thought it was best never to make a big deal over things like this, I thought it DLVd myself.. But your right I should have said something |
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Infamous110
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| I think it depends how you approach it. If you're making her aware that you don't accept second class behaviour then you're still being alpha. You're not crying and whinging about it, just simply telling her your values. |
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alaskanthunderfuck420
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| or she just isn't interested in you man. There are way more other hot bitches that WOULDN'T flake on you. |
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cranberry sauce
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okay dude...First off you're doing cocaine. This completely throws off the dynamics and the context of the situation.
Seriously bro-mill, lay off the coke. Also, you gotta understand, there's young kids who post on this shit. They read that, they'll get the wrong idea. No i'm just kidding, but seriously though, this post did not feel right. In fact it felt...fuck it i'm drunk off my ass right now |
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Student X
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Yeah if she is very flakey, ditch her. Ask yourself, in your conversations, have you truly got to like her, or do you just want pussy? As in is she emotionally important to you? Doesn't matter, either way, if shes wasting your time, ditch.
Tick Tock!-Precious Alpha Time-Tick Tock! |
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Head First
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| cranberry sauce wrote: | okay dude...First off you're doing cocaine. This completely throws off the dynamics and the context of the situation.
Seriously bro-mill, lay off the coke. Also, you gotta understand, there's young kids who post on this shit. They read that, they'll get the wrong idea. No i'm just kidding, but seriously though, this post did not feel right. In fact it felt...fuck it i'm drunk off my ass right now |
D00d why do you have to neg me... I know i should just move on but theres something different about this chick.. I dont have the its.. I dont know maybe its cat string theory... The point is I want the chick to be jocking hard... Im just going to have to freeze her out.. |
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Sexcellent
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| Head First wrote: | | cranberry sauce wrote: | okay dude...First off you're doing cocaine. This completely throws off the dynamics and the context of the situation.
Seriously bro-mill, lay off the coke. Also, you gotta understand, there's young kids who post on this shit. They read that, they'll get the wrong idea. No i'm just kidding, but seriously though, this post did not feel right. In fact it felt...fuck it i'm drunk off my ass right now |
D00d why do you have to neg me... I know i should just move on but theres something different about this chick.. I dont have the its.. I dont know maybe its cat string theory... The point is I want the chick to be jocking hard... Im just going to have to freeze her out.. |
"something different about this chick" = oneitus
i'm dealing with it right now, and the sooner you come to accept it, the sooner you can move on to something better. |
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Reo
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Say no to drugs
Man u messed up you should have done her up that night it could have been done so easily you were both high she was looking to get some that night you failed to deliver
I can't believe you stayed the night and didn't have her naked |
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