I don´t want to conform to openers

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Hey guys, I just began PUA and I finished reading the whole books and learned the concepts.

Anyways im really excited to start sarging and approaching girls especially to raise my self confidence, but with all these openers and rapport things it just feels so weird. Is there a way to avoid using canned material, how can I approach girls without doing ¨hey who lies more¨ I want to become a really good natural PUA

Infamous110 · Posted: Mon Jul 21, 2008 5:58 pm Post subject:

1. Make up your own openers if you want unique canned
2. Open directly

Or just go up and start talking. Pretend that you were mid conversation and you had to walk away for a minute.

"So, as I was saying - whenever we speak it's like she acts as though we're still together, you know?"

Doesn't really matter what you say.

Diaz

Grape · Posted: Mon Jul 21, 2008 6:17 pm Post subject:

Duude, I respect your view on gaming soo much.
Natural game is what you want??
Check out Juggler's stuff and David Deangelo's.

Other than text book material, natural game is mostly about inner game and confidence.
Also, understanding women will help you out a lot as well.

Simpua · Posted: Mon Jul 21, 2008 6:19 pm Post subject:

I don't particularly like canned material either. It's all about just having the confidence to say something unique to a set.

Example:

I was on the ferry yesterday and sat next to a two set of a HB8s (I always sit next to good sets... hehe) and began reading my book. I happen to overhear one of the women commenting about gifts from her bf and the other said, "Men just needs to be trained."

Without even a second thought I turned to her with a sarcastic/what did you just say tone of voice, "Excussseee Me!?" To which they both responded by cracking up. I ended up talking to these two the entire ferry ride as they were both pretty cool gals. The beauty of not using routines or canned material is that the conversation is just as fun for you as it is for them.

Infamous110 · Posted: Mon Jul 21, 2008 6:36 pm Post subject:

My thoughts on Gambler's The Natural Art of Seduction was that it's a natural version of The Game. It contains a little more "how-to" but has a very good storyline running alongside it. Covers a lot of ground and is definitely worthwhile if you're new in and want to use that route moreso.

Beschatten · Posted: Mon Jul 21, 2008 7:52 pm Post subject:

That's the fucking spirit. Don't plan things, no canned material, no routines.

Check out DiCarlo, Gunwitch, Juggler, Carlos Xuma, David X.
Basically everyone but Mystery.

Grape · Posted: Mon Jul 21, 2008 11:45 pm Post subject:

Waffle · Posted: Tue Jul 22, 2008 12:00 am Post subject:

Way to go man, you just opened a thread for people to bash on indirect game. Laughing

As to natural game, I just finished Juggler and I liked that a lot. You can pretty much just keep David D's C&F and toss the rest in my opinion, and I just started DiCarlo and am enjoying that one as well. Just a tip to all you routine haters, you ALL have your own little routines whether you notice or not. Shocked

Good luck on your natural game dude.

-Fluff-

Beschatten · Posted: Tue Jul 22, 2008 12:33 am Post subject:

You'd be suprised at how many sets Mystery gets blown out of.

And so for those of you banking on Syle as a MM follower, he really wasn't. You'd be amazed at how much NLP and direct game he used. IMO, learn it all and mix it up to how it works for you.

Chief · Posted: Tue Jul 22, 2008 12:55 am Post subject:

Illusun · Posted: Tue Jul 22, 2008 3:01 am Post subject:

Canned openers and routines are really just for beginners trying t get over AA. Think, if you have AA, what's the first thing that goes through your head?

"I just don't know what to say."

Arming a beginner with canned material at least starts him out with the confidence of knowing what to say.

Once you get to the point where you're past AA and don't need a crutch than you should either have your own VERY unique stuff or just go for direct game altogether.

It's just a temporary crutch for beginners.

veryEnglish87 · Posted: Tue Jul 22, 2008 11:43 am Post subject:

Trust me, you should start with canned openers. It really helps with getting used to rhythms, and you are confident because you pretty much know what is coming.

After a while you will develop your own openers, etc. And think about it, don't we all use openers anyway? Surely you find yourself starting conversations with the same lines/ideas sometimes? Maybe you just went to a great gig, so you tell people about it when you see them. That's effectively loosely canned material isn't it? You are just having the same conversation with lots of different people.

Just make sure you use openers that suit you, alter them a bit, whatever you want, soon you will be really comfortable using them, and then you always have something to pull out on the spur of the moment.

Trust, don't run before you can walk my friend.

Much love.

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BetaMale · Posted: Tue Jul 22, 2008 3:46 pm Post subject:

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