OMG Bitch shield.. helpsss

~RyGuy · Posted: Sat Jul 19, 2008 5:04 am Post subject: OMG Bitch shield.. helpsss

ok.. so i have been sarging online for a while but i never ran into a bitch shield.. and clearly she has one.. i am flabbergasted so i need a little help.. pleaseeeeee????

Smile

i 'seem' interesting yet we've never met or spoken before. i do whatever interests me and keeps me going- no matter who or what is going on around me. i am generally on the go 24/7... but overall whether i 'seem' interesting or not to you, especially you as a person whom i do not even know, i honestly could care less of how 'interesting' u find me to be.

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: ..~RyGuy..
Date: Jul 18, 2008 11:43 AM

You seem pretty interesting. It seems like there are two types of people in the world. Those that say they do interesting things but you talk to them later and they are in the same old place, and doing the same things and never leave. Then there are the people that actually have interesting lives...which one are you?

-RyGuy

djay · Posted: Sat Jul 19, 2008 12:08 pm Post subject:

shes already qulifying herself to you, i say you change thread

~RyGuy · Posted: Sat Jul 19, 2008 7:44 pm Post subject:

i really dont think that she has qualified herself to me.. concidering i asked her the question on how interesting she is.. and she clearly said "i honestly could care less of how 'interesting' u find me to be. "

Grape · Posted: Sun Jul 20, 2008 3:52 am Post subject:

It's one shit test.

She's asking "Well just because you find me hot won't mean I'll find you hot. I need more than just validation."

So DHV and disqualify her.

Tekken · Posted: Sun Jul 20, 2008 4:10 pm Post subject:

Honestly mate. That is a serious tough one. If you manage to come up with a good answer, she will be all over you. If you fail, I wouldn't feel too bad, it's one damn hard shit test.

I would and shit test her back using the same style she's spoken in.

ATM I can't think of a good enough answer to get hur back with. But I ill be thinking!

~RyGuy · Posted: Sun Jul 20, 2008 4:36 pm Post subject:

exactially.. thats why i am waiting a couple days before i send her a message..

so i am asking for everyones input of something to say and eventually i'll the the prefect answer.

Grape · Posted: Sun Jul 20, 2008 5:07 pm Post subject:

Well if you want an answer..

She knows she's being hit on, and she's just testing you.

Say:
Aww, you're not adventurous at all are you?? Wink

But hey, I guess you're wayy too cool to meet new people.
What a shame. (:

~RyGuy · Posted: Sun Jul 20, 2008 5:31 pm Post subject:

im really not hitting on her.. just asking if she is interesting and not the average boring hott person.. ya know.. but yours could work.. i'm goin to talk to my buddy whoopie and see what his take is on it.

Grape · Posted: Sun Jul 20, 2008 6:45 pm Post subject:

Yeahh bro, Whoopie is awesome. Good luck.

~RyGuy · Posted: Tue Jul 22, 2008 8:11 pm Post subject:

she is a feisty one..

a little miss negative, once again i am stumped.. helpss

here's what she said....

ok mr assumption- since when do you have to meet people online to be adventurous? is your goal in life to try and bother people into talking to you? and yes- i am WAY to cool to meet YOU and this particular myspace attitude.

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: ..~RyGuy..
Date: Jul 21, 2008 4:30 PM

Awwww, you're not adventurous at all are you?? Wink

But hey, I guess you're wayyy too cool to meet new people.
What a shame. Smile

AgentCooper · Posted: Wed Jul 23, 2008 2:49 pm Post subject:

I think we just need to be flexible with women like this. You used an opener that left a sour taste in her mouth...okay, fine it happens.

The good thing you have going for you is that she replied to you twice. If she was completely and utterly turned off she could wasted less time and just deleted your message and not replied.

It's clear from both of her responses that's she not going to take well to having to qualify herself right off the bat. Making her qualify herself has made her think you have an "attitude." That's fine...there are other approaches you can use here, and it's really up to you and what fits best with your own personality and style.

If I were in the situation I might play off her comments and take the piss out of yourself a little bit. If you show you're not offended by her comments and have good humor about what she's sees as a bad attitude, you might be able to squeeze in.

I'd probably say something to the effect of...
"Wait. Hold up. You mean poking and prodding and bugging the hell out of people isn't the way to score points? Damn...I've been going about this the wrong way all this time! Razz

"

And then I'd probably slip in a different approach...maybe check out her profile for something she's into that you're knowledgeable on like a certain band or a book or something like that and try to take the heat off yourself and get her interest going again.

and then after attempting a differerent approach, whatever it may be...i'd end the message by coming back to the bothering thing again and playfully say something like:
"Well I'd love to stay and chit chat, but there's a whole world out there that needs to be bothered! Until next time...ciao for now!"

But hey...like I said...it's got to fit your personality. That's just how I'd deal with it, but I'm sure there are plenty of valid ways to go about it. The key is we can't be intimidated or shaken by women like this. Approach it like you would anyone else...you're trying to spark mutual interest, and if it just doesn't happen on one end...bah, who cares...there are a ton of women out there Smile

They key with this one I think is separating yourself from what she seems to think was rude, arrogant, or attitudinal and show her you're not. Yeah it may be qualifying yourself to her indirectly...but sometimes when you have a hole to get out off you either have to knock yourself down to build yourself back up if she's that worth it to you...otherwise just walk away if she's not even worth it.

~RyGuy · Posted: Thu Jul 24, 2008 3:05 pm Post subject:

good post bro.

and ya.. she is totally not worth it.. she is to stuck up in herself to even care about what a guy thinks about her.. i figured ehh.. why not.. but then i get the bitch that Satan never wants. so i'm just forgetting her. lol not worth my time..

jok3rzwild · Posted: Wed Jul 30, 2008 6:14 am Post subject:

hot&cold67 · Posted: Wed Jul 30, 2008 4:54 pm Post subject:

LeDerek · Posted: Sun Aug 03, 2008 1:13 pm Post subject:

just put her in her place real quick...worst thing that can happen is she dont reply

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