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NbBurna
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 Posted: Mon Jul 07, 2008 8:49 am Post subject: New Opener - DEFINITELY WORKS |
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Whats up fellow puas, I had a quick question on an opener I created.
Well, I actually saw this opener on a 'destroy approach anxiety' thread, but it worked for me like a legit opener.
Nbburna:"hey, i have a weird request. I want you to imagine I'm hitting on you, and I want you to reject me in the most terrible way possible."
like i said, this opener is used to destroy approach anxiety by getting used to 'rejection'.
but, when i field-tested this opener, the chicks were very responsive, so i started to use it as a normal opener.
(Approached two HBs sitting at a table in the mall)
Nbburna:"hey, i have a weird request. I want you to imagine I'm hitting on you, and I want you to reject me in the most terrible way."
HBs: *giggles* haha alright....blahblah
Nbburna: "c'mon, you can do better than that!"
HBs: *laugh some more and say another joking rejection*
Nbburna: negs on opener, run the best friend routine
and we're off...
It has worked well so far, but a couple of times the chicks ask 'what is this for?' and i havent been able to come up with a cocky/funny or slapstick response to that.
any suggestions of how i can change it? |
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Stetson
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Man this is great!
My version would be:
*Opener runned and they respond*
PUA: Oh you can do better than that!
HBs: Blahblah...
PUA: Unbeliveable, okay now you hit on me and I'll show you a real rejection  !
HBs: *They try to hit on you*
PUA: *Some obvious really funny bullshit*
Move to a routine after the long laughs  ! |
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Hobbit
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| Posted: Mon Jul 07, 2008 1:51 pm Post subject: |
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| I'm no NLP expert, but this seems like it would be easy to go into something like like |
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J.U.C.E.
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Great idea!! i love this opener. Im so gonna try this today.
And i hope it really works with my AA. |
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Musterion
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| Posted: Mon Jul 07, 2008 7:13 pm Post subject: Re: New Opener - DEFINITELY WORKS |
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| NbBurna wrote: | | It has worked well so far, but a couple of times the chicks ask 'what is this for?' and i havent been able to come up with a cocky/funny or slapstick response to that. |
You could try just saying with a slight smile "Oh come on you call that a rejection?" act as if that IS their answer to your question. I reckon it could get a few laughs from them and also is a possible neg. |
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NbBurna
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i liked the adding of "serious, you call that a rejection. Here pretend to hit on me and ill show you a real rejection "
the only problem i had with this opener is that chicks started to ask "what is this for?"
i can't think of a good, funny response to that question. any suggestions?
The only thing i could think of is:
NbBurna: "my friend actually just broke up with his girlfriend and hes pretty bummed. so, me and a couple of my friends decided to tell him our rejection stories to make him feel better." |
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slowst0rm
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You just say:
I never got rejected in my life before, I wanted to see how it feels like. My friend says it's TERRIBLE! He once cried because he got rejected in a bar blablabla you think it makes him a pussy? blablabla |
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Stetson
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| Quote: | | NbBurna: "my friend actually just broke up with his girlfriend and hes pretty bummed. so, me and a couple of my friends decided to tell him our rejection stories to make him feel better." |
Thats a good one.
But this is me 
HBs: Whats this for?
PUA: I just noticed that you don't get hit on alot, so I thought like helping you out . Now, after my pickup line, reject me really harsh.
HBs: Okay/Blahblah...
PUA: *Throw something really funny, like "I just shit my pants... Can I have your number?" whatever, make them laugh*
HBs: *Laughs their asses off*
PUA: *While they are laughing* Well... Hey, don't worry, thats probably the worlds most best strange rejection 
HBs: Laugh/Blahblah..
PUA: Okay, your turn. Hit on me.
Etc... |
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D_Haile03
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| Posted: Tue Jul 08, 2008 8:20 pm Post subject: Re: New Opener - DEFINITELY WORKS |
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| NbBurna wrote: | Whats up fellow puas, I had a quick question on an opener I created.
Well, I actually saw this opener on a 'destroy approach anxiety' thread, but it worked for me like a legit opener.
Nbburna:"hey, i have a weird request. I want you to imagine I'm hitting on you, and I want you to reject me in the most terrible way possible."
like i said, this opener is used to destroy approach anxiety by getting used to 'rejection'.
but, when i field-tested this opener, the chicks were very responsive, so i started to use it as a normal opener.
(Approached two HBs sitting at a table in the mall)
Nbburna:"hey, i have a weird request. I want you to imagine I'm hitting on you, and I want you to reject me in the most terrible way."
HBs: *giggles* haha alright....blahblah
Nbburna: "c'mon, you can do better than that!"
HBs: *laugh some more and say another joking rejection*
Nbburna: negs on opener, run the best friend routine
and we're off...
It has worked well so far, but a couple of times the chicks ask 'what is this for?' and i havent been able to come up with a cocky/funny or slapstick response to that.
any suggestions of how i can change it? |
i duno y dont you jus say i will tell you once you do wat i sed in a jokie and yet demandin manner. she will love ur dominance |
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Devious
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| NbBurna wrote: | i liked the adding of "serious, you call that a rejection. Here pretend to hit on me and ill show you a real rejection "
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Awesome response! Anyone got any good C/F ways of 'rejecting' them when they hit on you? |
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Pheonixlike
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| NbBurna wrote: | the only problem i had with this opener is that chicks started to ask "what is this for?"
i can't think of a good, funny response to that question. any suggestions?
The only thing i could think of is:
NbBurna: "my friend actually just broke up with his girlfriend and hes pretty bummed. so, me and a couple of my friends decided to tell him our rejection stories to make him feel better." |
HB: What is this for?
(If it is a two set, neg off the targets wing)
Pheonixlike: Well I cant imagine she is giving you any decent conversation.
(Wink at her to make her feel it's not personal and to keep it friendly)
(The girls will probably laugh and the target will glance at her friend to make sure she' Ok at which point you say to the target)
Pheonixlike: Don't look at her, I'm talkin to you, maybe her later
(Another neg and wink or smile again)
Then carry on with the ol' 'Ima hit on you and you gotta give me the biggest rejection'. Make sure you keep the neg hits to a minimal and simple to make it friendly.
What do you think?
Pheo
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Stetson
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| Pheonixlike wrote: | HB: What is this for?
(If it is a two set, neg off the targets wing)
Pheonixlike: Well I cant imagine she is giving you any decent conversation.
(Wink at her to make her feel it's not personal and to keep it friendly)
(The girls will probably laugh and the target will glance at her friend to make sure she' Ok at which point you say to the target)
Pheonixlike: Don't look at her, I'm talkin to you, maybe her later
(Another neg and wink or smile again)
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Oh my god... Neg and ignore the target! You need to disarm the obstacle!
Negging and ignoring the obstacle would ruin the pick up to your target totally since you never disarmed the real obstacle man... Don't do that. |
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NbBurna
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| Devious wrote: | | NbBurna wrote: | i liked the adding of "serious, you call that a rejection. Here pretend to hit on me and ill show you a real rejection "
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Awesome response! Anyone got any good C/F ways of 'rejecting' them when they hit on you? |
yeah i tried this out today actually....worked like gold. the only thing is you have to say it in a completely confident manner or else they give you the "wtf are you doing" look they do.
the way i rejected the chick was like this :
(runs opener)
NbBurna: Oh c'mon you can do better than that! here try hitting on me and I'll show you how its done.
HB: haha Ok blahblah
NbBurna: (puts on exaggerated black womans voice) UH UH GIRLFRIEND, you gunna have to buy me dinner first before you get in THESE pants!! HMMPH!
it actually worked well the girls laughs at that. just use you imagination and make a c/f rejection that has something to do with them trying to get into your pants.
oh yeah, if a girl does a good rejection on you, call them 'evil' or say 'wow you must be the bad girl'. for some weird reason, girls seem to like that. |
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| Posted: Fri Jul 11, 2008 4:06 pm Post subject: |
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| OK, so once you have given her rejection then what? The conversation kinda dies? When you do it, do you give a FTR at the beginning? |
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| Posted: Fri Jul 11, 2008 9:01 pm Post subject: |
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| Well I know what i'm using tonite |
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