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God
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 Posted: Thu Jul 03, 2008 12:07 am Post subject: Making a big list of everything you could want to say |
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I'm trying to get myself out into the field but I have a feeling like I am completely unprepared. The advise I hear alot is to get a few routines and openers and then you'll be set to go into the field. I have done that but it always ends right there after the opener. I heard Style say he always had to write everything he could possibly want to ask or say in the field on a piece of paper and then he would put it in his pocket and "never look at it again". I thought that was a great way to prepare yourself because you will have so much material available for stacking and overall progression. So if anyone has any sound bites, gambits, routines, openers, or lines to add to this post it
"I'm going to adopt you as my little sister, go and climb trees and drink kool-aid"
I got that from this thread
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It's something cajun said on kttvip |
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Mr. Attraction
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you need to go out and do the 9 openers in 10 minutes, do some confidence building, striking a conversation is a success for a newbie, u cant go from 6 months of reading to becoming a master,infield is more important then in bed reading u know wat i mean, keep practising and ull find urself getting alot more confident, alot more interesting and alot more inviting to talk to from people...If i was u i would go and read all of this stuff from cajun on body language, even type into youtube positive body language and just practise practise practise good luck man!!
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God
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Yes I totally agree. I even posted a thread and it was about how I went out and my only desired outcome was to open sets. I then felt I needed to try and keep the conversation after the opener. You can read it here [link]
So now I'm thinking what are all the lines i can use to keep these conversations, that I'm going to try to make, going. Not that I am going to live off this list because Style also said that when he made this list he had to just put it away and not look at it again because whe he was in set he just had to free flow. So the main reason of this list is to just feel more prepared and maybe increase the chance of remembering a good thing to say from the list when the occasion for it arises. |
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Stewart-77
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| Posted: Mon Jul 07, 2008 5:26 pm Post subject: Make a short list |
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Ul find ur alot more confident when ur jus startin out if u make a short list of mayb 3 openers n attraction routines however go into no more detail than just the title bcos u want it to sound as natural as possible.If need b refer to ur list wen u go 2 toilets etc
Hope dat helps |
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Mr. Attraction
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| using gambits is your best bet, like ask her does she know her pornstar name, get your mothers maiden name and the name of your first pet...gambits r used to keep the convo going while your thinkin of the next things to say another example is the secret handshake,just make up a handshake...and good luck!! |
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