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DTM
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 Posted: Tue Jul 01, 2008 12:49 am Post subject: where should i go from here? |
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ok im not really sure where to go from here. i found this chick on myspace and thought she looked cute. on her profile it said she likes beer, so i asked her what her favorite beer was. we have sent a few messages back and forth since then (shown below, in chronological order, so read from the top). As you can see, i havent really shown any IOI's towards her. The reason for this is that her pictures are private so i dont know for sure if im attracted to her. I dont want to send a friend request this early just so i can see what she looks like, BUT i dont want to show IOI's, get her on a date, and it turns out shes chubby or something. what do you guys suggest?
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From: ..Dan..
Date: Jun 24, 2008 3:48 AM
so whats ur favorite beer?
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From: ..Erin..
Date: Jun 24, 2008 8:53 AM
hoegaarden or guinness, but there a lot that i love. those are probably my top two. what about you?
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From: ..Dan..
Date: Jun 25, 2008 10:37 PM
i dont really have one favorite beer, but i like Killians, Blue Moon, and Heineken. Hey you have a pretty good taste in music.
Are you in school or anything?
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From: ..Erin..
Date: Jun 26, 2008 8:49 AM
i like all of those beers too. i am a huge beer fan.
you think i have good taste in music? thank you, i try to keep myself updated on what's good lately. no, i don't go to school. i work full time as a paralegal. what about you?
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From: ..Dan..
Date: Jun 27, 2008 5:08 AM
i have a degree from Ivy Tech and im taking a few extra classes here before i go to Indiana State.
paralegal..woooow. how do you like that?
since ur a huge beer fan, have u ever been to Chumleys in broad ripple? they have like 30 beers on tap. i have yet to find a bar with more beers on tap. its a nice place
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From: ..Erin..
Date: Jun 27, 2008 8:42 AM
good for you. degree's are always a good thing. i really should go to school, but i'm just too lazy. at least i admit it though. 
yep, paralegal. i love it!! it's a good job and i really like the people that i work with/for. everyone is really cool here.
i used to live in broadripple, but i don't know if i've ever gone there...i doubt it. thirty beers?! sounds like heaven. have you ever been to brugge brasserie? they brew their own beer and it's delish. one kind is like 11% alcohol and it's sooo good.
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From: ..Dan..
Date: Jun 29, 2008 9:19 PM
where is brugge brasserie?
do you feel like you have to go to school? sounds like ur job is pretty good for not having to go to school
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From: ..Erin..
Date: Jun 30, 2008 9:34 AM
it's in broadripple. it's really good. you should try it sometime.
no i don't feel like i ahve to, but i do feel like i would be bettering myself if i did. it's something that i've done a lot of thinking about, but i haven't gotten enough motivation to actually do it.
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From: ..Dan..
Date: Jun 30, 2008
so what was it like living in broad ripple? thats gotta be nice. broad ripple is definetly my favorite bar scene. i live at 96th and keystone, so its not too far.
^I just sent that message today and she hasnt replied yet |
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DTM
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| Posted: Thu Jul 03, 2008 6:55 am Post subject: |
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| wow 24 views and not a single response. i took matters into my own hands. screw these forums, the PUA forums are so much better than this ( [link] ) i got better advice there. |
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djay
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| Posted: Thu Jul 03, 2008 12:14 pm Post subject: |
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| dude u aint used no pick up stuff, boring transfer of subject from beer to are u at school... |
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James Dean
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Well the goal is: you want to see the pictures.
Just ask for it?
See your pictures are private, I like to associate a person with a face.
Whether it is the telephone or wether it is an e-mail, I like a face to it. More personal. If I could see your eyes even better, because I believe the eyes are the windows of the soul (so she doesn't think u interested in her looks).
so can I have a peek at your pics?
Be cool
Take Care
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let me know if it works |
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Tnvir
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| Posted: Sun Jul 06, 2008 5:05 am Post subject: wow |
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hey mate!
First things first. If i sound like im burning you, then i'm not .. CONSTRUCTIVE criticism! lol ..
I like the conversation about beer, lots of things COULD have come from it. When she told you what her fave beer was, instead of telling her what it was. You could have told her you didnt like the ones she said. Just to be a bit of an asshole .. hehe, i find that online if you're not more COCKY than funny it can work wonders. Also! saying 'cutesy' things .. like .. 'eww' and just being a little childish is very very good online! cause it shows that you're just joking around but when it's time to get serious you can stop. [=
I agree with DJay about the bad transfer of subject! You can't really go from Beer to SCHOOL! totally 100% unrelated and just sounds boringggggg! This is what i would have done.
Me: ewwiess hoe garden!! taste like ... hoes! .. lol .. yeah that was SO LAME . hehehe.. anyways, what .. is.. the.. MOST CRAZIEST THING YOU HAVE DONE DRUNKKK!?
and she tells you something she did .. probably rather embarassing and you can neg her about it!! i didnt see any negs or teasing in your convo so that's probably let you down a little. I say you BAIL! .. and try again. lol
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Now_or_never
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| Posted: Tue Jul 08, 2008 5:32 am Post subject: |
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i think you should just add her.
once you add her you can look at her pics, decide if shes attractive.
if not..then just delete her..simple as that
And you should not..i repeat..should not ask for her pics. casue then its way to obvious that you are just judging her from her looks..and chicks dont like that.
or..she could think that you are asking for her pics because you want to jack off to it or something.
so i hope i helped.
any other questions..just ask.
casue i got a lot of experiences |
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DTM
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| Posted: Tue Jul 08, 2008 5:39 am Post subject: |
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| i already did add her |
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~RyGuy
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| Posted: Wed Jul 09, 2008 7:19 pm Post subject: |
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| hmmm.. i really see no "hook" in your convo.. just some boring transfers from one subject to another.. show some enthusiasm and spend some time working on getting her interested in you.. and not just some guy that she is talking to on myspce. |
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DTM
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| Posted: Thu Jul 10, 2008 6:58 pm Post subject: |
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| im not that interested in her |
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