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blinkant
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 Posted: Thu Jul 03, 2008 8:40 am Post subject: Train Girl |
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Right, there's this girl on my train that I see most mornings and today, she sat directly opposite me but I panicked and said nothing to her.
I think she's interested, as she's often making eye contact with me but what should I do when this happens??
I don’t really want to make my move too early as the journey is 40 mins long on a packed train and I can just see me making a fool out of myself. But, when we get to our destination, she's gets up really quickly and disappears in the crowed of people so I can't make a move then.
Any help is much appreciated. |
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djay
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| Posted: Thu Jul 03, 2008 9:58 am Post subject: |
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| another person made something similar, you should try and find that thread |
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Topman
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| Posted: Thu Jul 03, 2008 12:46 pm Post subject: |
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Just start off the convo with her with a cocky-funny approach like
"excuse me are you following me"
then you could throw in some DHV still with the cocky-funny
"i can't blame you if you are"
Then find some common ground , make her feel more attracted to you and number close her !!! |
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jedtheavenger
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| Posted: Thu Jul 03, 2008 9:40 pm Post subject: |
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| If you're getting any eye contact at all, ASSUME ATTRACTION! If you catch her looking at you, hold her gaze as long as you can and smile. Then grow some cojones and say hi, still assuming she is attracted to you. |
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erikose
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| Posted: Fri Jul 04, 2008 1:30 am Post subject: |
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I'm having the exact same situation but on a bus instead. I went into a situational opener with her:
ME: "The bus was horribly crowded wasn't it?" (When we get off)
HB10: "Yeah it was....blah, blah, blah"
ME: "Yeah. But hey, I need a quick opinion on something...(launch into opinion opener)"
HB10: "Well I think....blah, blah, blah"
And so it goes. I already established that she's German and from Dusseldorf and likes to watch soccer. Good thing abt this situation is that the HB10 is on the bus every morning. Bad thing is that the logistics are fucked. The bus is usually crowded and I can usually only speak to the HB10 when I get off and the window of opportunity to game her is small as I gotta catch the train and she goes to another direction. So progress is short and slow but it is moving.
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NbBurna
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i was on a train back home one day, and a HB7 sat next to me. This was my first "pua approach", so i had AA and didn't follow the 3 second rule.
If you don't open to her immediately, it might be a little weird to randomly spring up a comment or question that you could have asked earlier. That was the problem for me, so after a while when i finally decided to open this is what i did:
Nbburna: (looks at phone, acts like replying to text, close phone)
NBburna: hey i need your opinion on something. my friend is having a little problem and he doesnt know what to do. its his girlfriends birthday and hes gunna buy her a blouse. only problem is, he doesnt know her size, so should he get her a bigger one or smaller one? (the opener was something like that, i forgot)
HB7: dont know..blahblah
NbBurna: yeah but if he gets her a bigger blouse she might think hes calling her fat, if he gets her a smaller one she might think shes fat. either way, hes screwed!
HB7: haha blahblah
then i just asked general questions about school and stuff....it worked out well.
basically what im saying is, if you don't have the cajones to open immediately, same problem i had, create a situation which requires an opinion later on.
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Crono
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reminds me of my frist opener:
I was on a bus that had no seats that were open were you could sit alone so i sat down next to a hb7. Shes reading a book, I look over and its Norah Roberts. i was thinking there must be a line here somewhere. A while later she pulls out a book on latin and starts reading that. Thats when i came up with this :
So does latin make norah roberts more enjoyable?
She laughed and told me all about her uni corses. I knew I had her when she closed her book.
the point is turn the situation to your advantage. public transpo sucks but it is a good place to meet girls as they are most likely bored. |
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