Got club #'s this weekend and tryin this again...

Entry1

Some of you have read my posts regarding my efforts to connect after getting their number in clubs. I havent been too successful but, I'm always tryin stuff...

I got this girls # after dancin w her for like 15 minutes. Probably said a handful of words to her...

So I text'd her today "did u feel that"?

She called me like a minute later! I didnt answer...(I'm at work) but she didnt leave a message. She's probably wondering who it was...

So, I'll call her tonight, yes????

Entry1 · Posted: Mon May 14, 2007 6:41 pm Post subject:

so she texted "who is this"? I said: "ur knight in shining armor! have ur phone w u tonight" she said: "hi sebastian-do u know my name"? And then I think the AFC showed up again! I said "Delicious works for me".

She didnt write back.

Did I F*** it up that fast? or am I reading too much into it?

villain · Posted: Tue May 15, 2007 1:35 am Post subject:

From previous experience, with getting a number in a club, to contacting them afterwards... I think that it would have been wiser to call her, text messaging unfortunately doesn't work too well. The reason being is that she may have already given her number to another guy that night, so she may have several other dudes, sms'ing her. The other good reason for calling her, is that it leaves an impression with the HB, that you are different from the other guys she gave her number already to. By calling, it makes good raport building with the HB, once you take it off from there, it would be easier to text her, now that you've got that relationship through calling her, and now she is familiar to the way that you speak with her.....

As for this HB, you picked up... i'd probably move on...

Vegas The Great · Posted: Tue May 15, 2007 8:56 am Post subject:

I totaly agree with Villain

Methuselah · Posted: Mon May 21, 2007 12:26 am Post subject:

Haha, Delicious, thats priceless dude.

I'm gonna go ahead and guess that texting that fucked it up. Like villian said, texting is bad. Always call a girl before you text her, no matter where you meet her. Texting shows huge signs of insecurity to a girl, regardless of if you actually are or not. A woman does not want a feeble man texting her messages, she wants a phonecall from a stern confident guy. Bottom line, save the texting for when shes your girlfriend bro.

Learned from that mistake. Move on and remember, call first.

Nerd Avenger · Posted: Tue May 22, 2007 8:57 am Post subject:

to me i find that when ever you start to text. thats all it ever stays. a text relationship.

its harder to convey vocal tones. hard to come off as cocky funny, sarcastic. or whatever.

next time leave a voice mail. you didn't meet her on the internet.

IMHO

Entry1 · Posted: Tue May 22, 2007 1:34 pm Post subject:

I will not text as a first contact anymore. Lookin back- I think it was wussy...

It works well for staying in the mind of a girl ur already seeing tho...

Nerd Avenger · Posted: Tue May 22, 2007 5:54 pm Post subject:

oh and yeah give her some calls. its not to late.

and when she answers ask for her by name. hi may i speak to so and so?

it will show that you do remember her name.

then maybe you can use ur other stuff. its not really a lost cause.

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