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N-Dangerous
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 Posted: Thu Jun 12, 2008 6:28 pm Post subject: Going for first Day 2 Meet Up, Need Help |
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Hey guys need a bit of help.
I've been practicing my day game recently, after only starting in field training at the end of April. I have got a few number closes. One I screwed up with a spazzy text, heh.
Last Thurs night while waiting for a relative at the airport I started talking to a nice HB7 working behind the till in a newsagents. I was relaxed and just had a natural conversation, she is studying literature so I told her about this spirituality book I was reading and she then then seem somewhat intrigued. She told me how her mum made her do a spirituality course in London not long ago but she had since neglected to practice what she had learned.
Because I'm new to this I did not throw in any teasing which I should have, or build any attraction, so throughout the interaction I sensed that she was trying to figure me out. After about 20 mins she was closing the shop and I asked how to stay in contact, she chuckled and said she could give me her #. That works!
So anyway that was a week ago now. I have not called or texted her. I would like to hang out, do something with her as she seemed pretty cool as well as being hot. How should I go about this? Obviously I should phone her.
I understand when you first phone her you should talk about yourself for a bit, re build comfort , tell her about your day. Get a laugh or two. Then get onto telling her I am doing x on x and that she should or could tag along if she likes. I thought I could lend her the book we talked about and go hang out in the park, get sum lunch. Something like that. Do a few routines and also be real. I'd prefer to do a fun activity such as indoor skiing, but I'm low on funds right now.
Should I say I am going to be with friends?
I'd prefer to hang with her alone than with friends.
So.. yeah, this the first time I am going to phone to attempt a day two.. all help appreciated! |
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Xargon
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| Posted: Sat Jun 28, 2008 6:27 pm Post subject: |
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Beautiful women talk to many, many people, and the more you wait, the more distant her memory of you will be. I text new girls the next day (e.g., "hey it's xargon from yesterday, miss me yet? where are you taking me next week" or something like that). If i decide to call instead, max 2 days after closing.
For girls (or anyone, really), the most interesting topic of conversation in the world is.....themselves! That doesn't mean you talk about YOURself, you talk about that girl. Don't complain about anything, always be optimistic, and don't talk too much about yourself. You have to leave an air of mystery about you so you remain interesting! If you know absolutely EVERYTHING about someone, they're not as interesting anymore, are they?
Always remember to have a purpose. If you tease her, it's probably to disqualify yourself as yet another one of those hundreds of suitors who have talked to her that week. If you call her, it's to setup a physical meeting (which, granted, sometimes must be augmented by reestablishing attraction).
Save skiing, ice skating, bowling, etc, for a later date. I think it's important to get a kiss soon and establish romantic motives instead of trying to be her friend. Best go for coffee/ice cream & later a bar where you can have reasonable isolation to kiss close.
I posted a template for a day 2, i don't remember how current it is since my tactics evolve with experience. Pretty straightforward.
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AK47
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| Posted: Mon Jun 30, 2008 5:28 pm Post subject: |
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yeah, the wait is pretty long, are you trying to make her forget you?
the other guy pretty much got all the points you need to concentrate on |
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