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Mega5x
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 Posted: Tue Jun 10, 2008 1:14 am Post subject: my friend tells her group of friends |
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coincedently my friends and my targets friends were together.
me being with my friends at the time.
they started talking about my target.
out of no where a friend openly says without thought
that i like her.
it made me quite mad
since ive worked on this target for about 2 months.
my friend telling her friends i liked her would have possibly led to suspicion to her.
i wouldnt know how to respond to this
it might make things awkward because i was going to see her, but it happened. and i dont know what to do.
what if she brings it up.
or she makes it awkward. |
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The Dos
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| That's why you just don't bother telling your friends if you are into a HB or not, because no matter what, it can always find a way to come and bite you back in the ass and mess up your game |
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Mega5x
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| Posted: Tue Jun 10, 2008 1:51 am Post subject: |
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i realized that
i regret it a lot.
how can i make it better? |
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The Dos
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| Posted: Tue Jun 10, 2008 2:01 am Post subject: |
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| Try and tease her saying that he was just joking and that she shuold be flattered if you did (implying that you don't) and instead tell her that her friends told you that she likes you to as to sort of turn it around on her so you have something kinda to tease/neg her about |
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ConspiracyTheory
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| Posted: Tue Jun 10, 2008 4:28 am Post subject: |
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bad news
if you've been working on her for 2 month and she doesn't know you like her, you are in the friend zone badly. girls are very intuitive, chances are she knows
and hiding your interest is bullshit, you should only do it in the beginning, and as you gain experience you will start to actually not be interested right away as you've had plenty of other girls and want to find out what makes her special first. |
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Mega5x
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i kind of like what your saying "the dos"
but i heard somewhere that your suppose to be honest.
zan perion
and as for "conspiracy"
ive given hints each conversation.
ive gotten her to only go online just for me.
i dont want to get laid though
i just want a longterm relationship.
how can i get out of this friend zone
on saturday is the first time were going to hang out.
but its going to be like 3 girls and 1 guy |
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bijou616
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| Well, when all else fails there's always jealousy. It's great to have three hot female friends. Then you can use them as pivots. I definitely think that if you're flirting with another girl in front of her that it would generate at least some attraction...potentially a lot. I've heard many cases of girls going crazy to get guys they just turned down because they were with other girls. |
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