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 Posted: Thu Jan 03, 2008 8:09 am Post subject: Buying drinks !!!! |
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Hi guys,
I'm new here and this is my fisrt post! I am just now descovering the "game" , but i guess some of the stuff I already did naturaly!
Last weekend i went out with some friends to a night club! It was packed of girls! Two girls (9s) came up to me in the bar, and the seemed a litle drunk! One of them said:
G1 " my friend had 4 shots of tequila and she's not drunk yet"
Me " How come?"
G2 " I dont know, but im not drunk yet"
me " where are you guys from?"
G1/2 " swenden"
G1 " my friend isn't drunk yet"
me " And how the hell is this my problem?Why are you trying to get her drunk? are you trying to get into her paints? ( being playfull)"
G1 " of course not"
me " So you want her to get drunk so she will get the nerv to make a move on me? ( always playfull and smiling)"
G2 " Come on, buy us a drink!! "
me" tell you what! I know hot girls get free drinks all the time, let's see how good you guys realy are!! If you get any guy in here to buy ME a drink, i will buy drinks for you! Do you think you can do it? "
G1/2 " Come on "
Me " I'm serious"
And then they laught and things kind that went dead from there! The thing is , I felt realy good and in control all the time, but i couldn't get a number or go to other phases!
What did I do wrong or could have done better! Give me your opinions!!! |
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JSmooth
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I do like it when you said, "tell you what! I know hot girls get free drinks all the time, let's see how good you guys realy are!! If you get any guy in here to buy ME a drink, i will buy drinks for you! Do you think you can do it? " However, I think it came a little late in the conversation.
I"ll borrow a few lines from Mystery in regards to this one that I love to use. When she came up and said, "my friend had 4 shots of tequila and she's not drunk yet." "Whatever, you're just attracted to me." Then when she said,"Come on, buy us a drink!! " I'd use, "Okay, you buy the first round, I'll buy the next, and so on, that's how my friends and I always do it!"
That is what I would have personally done differently, and also I wouldn't have said, "Where are you guys from?" That's an AFC comfort building technique. I would have gone from "Whatever, you're just attracted to me." She opened you so it's time to neg your target and engage the obstacle with DHV stories.
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Hunt
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| Thanks J smooth!! As I said i just began on this , so all the information I can get is good! |
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I think you did well, you didn't give in, that would demonstrate lower value.
I'd take jsmooth's advice regarding Mystery to heart |
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| From the convo you posted, it seems pretty obvious that they were just trying to get a drink out of you. Too bad the set went dead, I bet you could have turned it around. I'm sure you will next time! |
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| Yeah that was a good start for a beginner. Here's some advice concerning you asking them questions. Don't. Girls hear the same questions from every guy they see. Being a PUA means being an exception to the rule. Get used to making open-ended statements that elicits the girl to ask you questions. Almost everything about pick-up is turning around the natural roles of male-to-female interaction. |
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Stealth7
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I think the girls were trying for you to buy them a drink to boost their egos! In other words giving you Fake IOI's. Not good! It's possible that you sounded needy in a way. However, like J said I do like the way you turned the tables around.
HER: Buy us a drink!
PUA: Only if you're willing to buy me a drink!
HER: Sure!
It's negotiating and if they buy you a drink then they will buy you a drink. Or you can try this:
HER: Come and buy us a drink! [IOI]
PUA: Wow! You must be alcoholics, eh? [Smile and laugh, touching on the upper arm]
HER: [Laughs] No, we're not!
PUA: 4 shots of tequila?? You're never gonna pass the drunk test! [Smile and laugh]
HER: [Laughs]
PUA: Here's the deal...if you pass this test then I'll buy you a drink. If you don't...then you buy me a drink-got it?
HER: Sure!
PUA: Okay, touch your nose...good! Now put the other hand on your head. Good, now pat your head and hope on one foot. Can you do it?
[If passed then neg her]
PUA: Wow! Looks like you're not alcoholics after all --or-- Wow! Looks like you have to get drunk even more to fail the test.
[If failed then use C&F line]
PUA: Damn, you'ro drunk you can't even hop on one foot! How can you both walk straight without walking into shit?
HER: [Laughs] Come on buy us a drink.
PUA: [Laugh] I'll see ya guys later! [Start walking away then they'll either 1) Find another stupid idiot to buy them a drink or beg you to come back and buy you a drink.]
They were using you to get them drunk-don't fall into that trap bro! ANyone that listens to me knows what I'm talking about. See if someone persists you on buying them a drink then forget them. They're being needy and manipulative. Don't go for those kind of girls. If they seem to be like this then go to another set to open. It's okay to lose, you'll only gain what you lose. Read me? |
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| I'd say it was good control of the conversation, and with a little bit of practice you could turn that into a good set... |
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I'd say they just wanted free drinks  |
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It sounds like they were just trying to get free drinks.
I have no respect for girls who try to get free drinks so this is what I do when I suspect they're trying to pull a fast one on me I'll make a deal with them.
I'll say How about you buy me a drink you think I'll like and I'll get one that you'll like.
Most of the time they'll buy me a bottle beer or something but I'll just get them a water or cranberry juice and jog on! |
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| Lone Wolf wrote: | It sounds like they were just trying to get free drinks.
I have no respect for girls who try to get free drinks so this is what I do when I suspect they're trying to pull a fast one on me I'll make a deal with them.
I'll say How about you buy me a drink you think I'll like and I'll get one that you'll like.
Most of the time they'll buy me a bottle beer or something but I'll just get them a water or cranberry juice and jog on! |
Muahahahaha! - Nice
Usually I travel in decent sized groups and girls see us throwing money for drinks so ofcourse they come along and get in the circle to get free drinks... What would be the best way w/o being rude and showing them up infront of everyone that we dont really wanna buy them drinks... or should we just tell them in a way to get the -F- out of here. (these are the nights where were not looking for chics |
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| tell her she doesnt deserve it yet, and ask her to entertain you and tell u something interesting first, she has to work for it |
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Lone Wolf I might have to follow you on that one, Ha Ha  |
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Id say 99% of the time the girl wants a free drink...youd be amazed how many chicks can go out each night and drink it up without spending a dime.
The other 1% of the time they may be using it as an excuse to talk to you...
If you wana play the game flip it on them, try and get them to buy you one. A couple routines were presented here, yours wasnt bad.
If you dont care to play, simply turn your back on them while laffing out loud. They will either get the point, or your value will sky rocket and they will do something else to get attention.
Also you can simply say, "Why would i buy you a drink?" or "Why should i buy you a drink?"
If they say anything relating it to a male/female thing simply ask if they are gonna clean your apartment after you buy them the drink... (maybe not a great idea, but funny) |
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Infamous110
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| Just go with "Okay, I'll buy you a drink... Can I borrow $5?" |
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