Romantic100
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 Posted: Sat May 31, 2008 2:44 pm Post subject: 4 simple tips to strengthen confident communication skills |
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The ideas I share in the post below sound simple and almost too obvious. Beware! Some people get fooled by this simplicityinto not taking action. If all you do is take one simple concept and apply it you will make progress one step at a time.
Do this with each of the tips in this report and you will enjoy new success with other people. And you will feel a new confidence that changes the quality of your day to day life. Your communication skills will improve very quickly. When I made the leap from feeling unsure of myself aroundpeople and shy with new people to becoming highly confidentand persuasive it happened one step at a time.
I did not wake up one morning feeling completely transformed. I focused on getting better and I took the time to learn newstrategies AND I applied them each day until I soon masteredthe simple concepts I introduce in this report. You can do the same! Remember having the ability tocommunicate with confidence is only a question of knowing the right strategy.
Here are some guidelines for developing good communication skills that you can practice anywhere and at anytime
1: Eye Contact. Whether you are speaking or being spoken to, looking into the eyes of the person you are in conversation with can make the experience much more successful.Eye contact conveys interest, and encourages your partner tobe interested in you in return. In less intimate settings, when giving a speech or when in front of several people, holding the eyes of different members of your audience can personalize what you are saying and maintain attention.
2: Body Language. Body language can say so much more than a mouthful of words.An open stance with arms easily to your side tells anyone you are talking to that you are approachable and open to hearing what they have to say.Arms crossed and shoulders hunched, on the other hand, suggests disinterest in conversation or unwillingness to communicate.Often, communication can be stopped before it starts by body language that tells people you do not want to talk. Good posture and an approachable stance can make even difficult conversations flow more smoothly.
3. Have courage to say what you think! Communication skills begin with simple communication. You do not have to discourse of difficult topics to communicate.Take time each day to be aware of your opinions and feelings. When you are aware of what you believe on a certain issue, you can better convey those thoughts to others.Individuals who are hesitant to speak because they do not feel they have worthwhile opinions need not fear: what is important or worthwhile to one person may not be to another and may be more so to someone else. In a world so very big, someone is bound to agree with you, or to open your eyes to an even deeper perspective. The courage to say what you think can afford you the opportunity to learn more than you did before.
4. Speak loudly enough to be heard. When you are saying what you think, have the confidence to say it so as to be heard. An appropriate volume can inform listeners that you mean what you say, you have thought about what you are saying, and what you are saying is worth hearing. An appropriate tone and volume ensure your listeners hear exactly what you are saying, and decreases room for misunderstanding.
Communication skills can be practiced every day in settings that range from the more social, dating, or to the more professional.
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This is great advice.
The Rules of the Game, the new book by Strauss, begins with this.
All of those things help you connect with people (not just women) as they show you are of value and also empathetic (via eye contact). |
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