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Klover
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 Posted: Tue Feb 26, 2008 8:17 pm Post subject: Stood up |
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| So... I was supposed to go out on a one-on-one date with this girl on Saturday, we actually were supposed to go out on Wednesday, but she said she wasn't feeling good, so I rescheduled of her next free night, she told me Saturday, so we made plans to go out on Saturday night. So Saturday morning/afternoon came around, and I sent a quick text saying "are we still on for tonight?" an hour later, she responded with "yep I've been sleeping", I took that as “yep, were still on for tonight”, and she's been sleeping, that's why it took her an hour to respond. I then sent a few more text message to her through the day, all of the text messages, were asking questions like, “I was thinking we'd go out around 7:30” and when I didn’t get a response for two hours I said “does that time work for you?” after no response for about two and a half hours, I decided to give her a call, I got her voicemail, I left a very polite message, after about another half an hour, it was 7:45pm and I figured nothing was going to happen, I accepted the fact that I had been stood up, so I went in to the city (Chicago) for a night on the town with some friends. I was very excited to go out with this girl, but obviously she didn’t feel the same way. Now I’ve come to terms with the fact that, she stood me up, and that she doesn’t want to go out with me, but I really want to let her know she’s acting like a child, I do frequent the bar that she works at once or twice a week, but I don’t know if I should call, text, or the next time I’m in the bar, treat her as if she missed out on the greatest guy in the world? I’m looking for some advise from real PUA’s, guys who have been in my shoes, and have had to deal with these situations. |
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Skill
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I guess you just came up as too needy....a text message half an hour before the date would been best....if she planned to go with you she would have already been prepared and would have answered and if not then you would have known because she didn't answer...
I am totally new to this but I had a date at 20:30 at a Thursday lol but what I did is I sent her a message at 20:00 just saying "are we?",nothing else.
She answered we are and we met like planned. |
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Killians
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You probably shouldnt have rescheduled sooo soon after she canceled.
Dont call or text her again. Just move on...Be yourself at the bar |
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joker_jack84
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| Posted: Mon May 19, 2008 8:57 pm Post subject: |
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| Never been stood up, but I have had "dates" from hell. |
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Chief
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| Sounds like your eyes have yet to be opened. I'd start with David Deangelo's material if I were you. |
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penetrator
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| Dont worry about it dude just pack up and move on |
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N-Dangerous
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Harsh dude, but forget her she is not important.
Just keep learning / in field training.
Don't direct any more energy via your thoughts to her or give her any attention again what so ever. |
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