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 Posted: Fri Mar 14, 2008 4:40 am Post subject: Any Tips? Solo Sarge For Beginner |
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Any tips for general places to sarge day/night?
Are Clubs/Venues/Lounges viable places to go alone as a beginner?
So far I have made this list:
College Campuses
Places around College Campuses
Coffee Shops
Bookstore
I also see alot of cute girls in the library but they look so busy/focused makes me feel guilty/unsure.
Thanks in advance. |
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Buff
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theres no such thing as too busy. remember that every girl wants to be able to go home and tell her friends about how something special happened today and some guy came up and started talking to her or even just came up to tell her how cute she was. even if you interrupt her, she'll have a great story for later. odds are, she'd just politely tell you that she's busy, in which case you cant be hurt cause you probably know what it's like to be cramming for an exam or something, it doesnt mean she's not interest. and you might run into her another day, and then she'd remember you and maybe even approach you 
but what do i know, i'm still an rAFC... |
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GeNeRaL3
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| Posted: Tue Apr 29, 2008 5:42 am Post subject: |
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Day game- College campuses, coffee shops, bookstores, malls, flea markets... Hot chicks are everywhere so always have the intention to sarge. Everywhere you go try to sarge, You never know when you'll see them so be ready.
Night Game- Bars are free to enter so definitly go there, theres admission fees for clubs but its always a target rich environment, strip clubs eventually
and I agree with Buff...It doesnt matter if theyre busy or not. If they are, they'll politely tell you to leave but chances are if you open with correct Body language, throw in an FTC, and ask them for an opinion on something you should be good...Just do it..Make no excuses, youre improving everything about your life, it just takes time, dedication and balls. |
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Ezoghoul
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| Posted: Wed Apr 30, 2008 6:53 pm Post subject: |
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Hey man, welcome to the game.
Anywhere where there are HB:s is a place to sarge. Street, casual encounters, discos, bars, anything.
What really matters as a rAFC is that you have to accept that the first approaches will be crash and burns! The thing that separate PUAs from rAFCs is not how well ou do your routines but the level of inner game.
A PUA KNOWS that he has other options, a PUA KNOWS that there are more fish in the sea, a PUA KNOWS that it does not matter if 200 girls tell him to go away.
The most important thing to embrace if you want to get past the first difficult period where (sadly) many rAFCs quit, is to realize that approach anxiety and fear of failure is just an illusion.
It hurts for the moment but thats it. You will probably never meet this person again, if you did not go out that night wou would never have met her, she might as well not have existed at all.
She has had 5 seconds to see who you are before rejecting you, she did not even do that, it is just a bitch-shield, nothing personal, just a reflex.
Busy girls... Imagine yourself reading or looking for a book and this gorgeous girl starts talking to you, would you feel too busy? Be the prize man. At the very worst you annoy them for 5 seconds, not enough to even remember.
If you are prepared to take the pain in the beginning and get past this period, these problems will solve themselves!
Good Luck,
Phoenix |
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Orann
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This will be my first ever post on these forums, but I've been lurking for some time now. I'm relatively new to the game, but I think I can shed some light on this issue.
Essentially, everyone else saying "they are never too busy" is right.
Regardless of how well you do, there is almost no way you could possibly make her day worse by talking to her. You are a PUA now, you are an interesting, dynamic, unusual guy, girls Want to be with YOU!
Simply put; by approaching her and talking to her, even if she hates you (and she wont, if you have learned anything), you will still have improved her day.
Here's an example; when I first got into the game I ran a bit of an experiment with a friend. He wanted to talk to some girls, but had terrible approach anxiety. My game back then was terrible too, but I'd gotten over my fear of approaching, and I was feeling a bit reckless. I dragged him over to their table and opened them with the worst opener I could think of. I ran terrible game and was generally doing what I could to keep up C&F, but get us blown out of the set as throughly as possible.
It worked pretty well, they ended up hating me, but my friend learned a valuable lesson and has become a lot more confident (Under the the theory that it would never really go that badly, and that in itself wasn't such a big deal). The good thing about it was that even though they didn't like me, I still improved their day. I was probably the most interesting thing to happen to them for months. They gain a cool story and have a better day, my friend kills off some AA, I have a few laughs. Everyone wins.
My point is, no matter how badly you do, there's no way you are going to make things worse for her, as you will be moving past AA. As long as you leave them better than you find them, it's all good.
Good luck.
P.S: Opening with a question about palmistry or tarrot or something books could work pretty well. "Hey, I've only got a minute before I have to meet some friends, but I need a female opinion on this; do you beleive in this stuff?"*Show her book*
Chain onto that with why/why not, possibly lead into The Cube. |
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