Posted: Thu Mar 20, 2008 10:31 pm Post subject: I've met tons of women from online-heres what i did.
I have met over 250 girls from sites like myspace and facebook..i dont know why more guys dont give it a shot
here is the girl i just met a few days ago- she is a Show girl, stripper and model here in vegas-
Here is my general outline to what I do to successfully meet a ton of women...
A friend recently asked me:
"So why should I try to meet women online when I am fine meeting in person?"
My reply: "Dont meet women online instead of in person, ALSO meet women online. "
Infield pickup will never be replaced by any new means of online dating systems...but why not use the technology to your advantage. Dont be stuck riding horses just cause you dont see any point in riding in a car.
3 Steps to instantly improve your online game
first you have to set up your profile correctly
Profile (most are mainly for myspace)
* use contrasting colors so all the text is visible
* Pick 15 good pictures of you doing something different in each one (having fun with friends, with two girls on your arm, dressed in a ridiculous costume/outfit, being in control-doing anything where all the attention is obviously on you, with your family...And Try to look happy and fun by smiling or laughing in some of the pictures you get the point)
* Embed a music player( google project playlist) and put a diversity of songs you like, fun songs, a girly song or two
* Use very few words in your info/about me section. Rather than 2 paragraphs that are boring about what your life journey is.. or how cool you are.. Use a qualifying statement, and embed your pictures directly into your profile so all the girl has to do is scroll down your page. Your pictures will display more about you than your text ever will.
* Get plenty of comments from hot girls to give you more social proof. -Message about 30 or so hot women in a DIFFERENT AREA... and just tell them this. "Hey, my ex and I just broke up and she is stalking my profile... could ya send me a fun/sexy comment to make her a little jealous? -{your name}" you will get plenty of comments from that.
* Embed tv show Flyers and movie posters (only 2 or 3 each) to show what you like... it is good to include a movie like dirty dancing or juno, or the notebook as well as some other movies that are actually your favorite. The point is just to show diversity and humor.
Opening Message
The anatomy of a good opener is
* Use a subject that stands out and creates curiosity so she is more likely to read it
* Show no interest in your message
* Keep it short
* Use statements or questions that require her to seek more info from you
Here are 2 examples of good openers:
Quote:
Subject: I'm not sure but...
Body:
I think you know my friend
-{your name or screen name}
Note: You are not putting her off by hitting on her and she has to respond to ask who the friend it is.
Subject: Caught you!
Body:
Hey you are that girl who molested me the other night at [local club/bar/festival] the other night...naughty naughty... haha
-{your name or screen name}
Note: Now she has to respond to dispute her being at the club, but lets her also know that you were out at a club and women were seeking you.
The ultimate goal is only to get her initial response. Once she responds to you, then you can build a conversation in a way that commands building her attraction to you.
Role playing, Games, Transitioning
Once you are in a conversation with a women it is up to you to guide it. Remember to keep everything playful and fun, not challenging and to direct. Use these techniques to make her want to engage you further.
Techniques to integrate as necessary.
- Use fun nicknames such as Cocker spaniel, snuffulufugus, pumpkin butt, honey pie- this really builds a sense of 'history' with a person quick.
- Jokingly misinterpret what she says.
Example:
Quote:
Her: I'm going shopping in a little
you: oh thanks I'm a 32 regular..either levis or lucky brand jeans will work.. you are so thoughtful... lol
-If she agrees with you about something reply with something like “ you don't have to try and impress me girly...jeeze! Haha “
Note: if she replies negatively like “i wasnt trying to impress you.” you can respond to this effect: “ Woah woah mis fiesty pants... I'm going shopping later.. want me to pick you up a sense of humor... lol ”
-heres a fun way to transition into role playing.
Example:
Quote:
“So apparently most girls have a similar personality as their favorite disney princess... so which is your fav? ”
Now assume she says Tinker bell.
Now you have an opportunity to tease her a little bit, something like:
“I would have picked something more like Belle from beauty and the beast for you...i mean you do seem kinda like a nerd...although a yellow dress would be pretty cute on ya....
I guess with your wings and the pixie dust we could save a lot on air travel.. we can go to Venice and enjoy a gondola ride ... best part is I can put you in my pocket.
To bad that i'd have to break up with you since apparently fairies are alcoholics...I had no idea..”
Note: now she is imagining her self spending time with you, you are showing again that you have standards, and you are really displaying a good sense of humor.
-Use statements like “wait until you hear my answer” after you ask her a question or post a fun quiz for her to take.
-Post a fun comment on her pictures.
For example, if she has a bunch of pictures all dressed up and one of her puppy or cat, only post on the picture of the pet and say something like “i'm not sure, but there is something different about you here..lol ”
- Prepare her to be invited to meet you if she hasnt already asked too. Do this by "seeding the invite". Decide on something to invite her to and ask her about related things about it she is guaranteed to say yes too... Such as: for a comedy club ask her "Do you like drinks, good company, having fun, and laughing so hard you pee your pants? but please... dont actually pee your pants... thats just gross.. lol " She will most likely say yes to all of those things, and will be less likely to say NO when you invite her to somewhere that includes all of those things... Like a Comedy club.
note: When you do actually send the invite you want to be sure you are inviting her to something that you will be doing with or with out her, and with several of your buddies.
- End your messages with “gotta go” and a short fun reason why such as: " gotta run, my friends and I are going to the turtle races... so fun...! "
Kelly
aka song_bird
ps
A video my wing race(hatch) and I made demonstraing how to browse, find women with in a 5 mile radius(or how ever much you set) of you, and message 20 women in under 5 minutes...
Wow, all my friends do myspace and similar things and I have always given them shit for it. no more. I'm gonna open a myspace page and set up shop. THanks for the advice.
As a COMPLETE myspace (whatever other online social blah blah) newb do you have any advice? Can you see where (geographically) certain people are? Can you just cold-mesage someone? How do you know they aren't crazy/ugly (both is bad but i'll settle for crazy/hot)? Are people grouped ont hes ethings by hobby or interests? I am keen to using this interwebs you speak of, please elaborate...
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Posted: Sat Apr 05, 2008 6:32 am Post subject:
What I have been doing is asking questions as fake shit tests, saying they failed (barely) the first one. The do it again (this time with a sexual question) and they pass. Then I neg them for not carrying their weight in the conversation and ask me something.
What I have been doing is asking questions as fake shit tests, saying they failed (barely) the first one. The do it again (this time with a sexual question) and they pass. Then I neg them for not carrying their weight in the conversation and ask me something.
I will post some threads.
ive used negs for girls with weak responses like "so i guess your unsocial huh..." or "are your answers always this short..." - something to neg their social skills... that usually turns the whole game around... next thing you know she sends 20 lines of message - lol...[IOI]
ok check it out just want some suggestions and constructive criticism on my myspace and btw i did message plenty of girls to get commments for social proof like suggested here they all agreed but none posted? is it my page layout, thanks.
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Posted: Mon Apr 14, 2008 4:38 am Post subject:
Grandroyale wrote:
ok check it out just want some suggestions and constructive criticism on my myspace and btw i did message plenty of girls to get commments for social proof like suggested here they all agreed but none posted? is it my page layout, thanks.
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