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diggidoyo
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 Posted: Wed Mar 19, 2008 1:57 pm Post subject: Not Another Myspace Thread.... (Tested opener inside) |
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I know there's lots of these but I stumbled across this gem from another forum. Was just a single post that no one else even mentioned but I thought I'd give it some light here as yet another opener. As with others, I disagree with opinion openers as its a rather offsetting way to being a conversation online. The reason is out in the field, when you ask a girl her opinion its extremely spontaneous and she's put on the spot as she racks her brain for her take on the situation. Online however, the effect is drastically diminished since she has all the time in the world to think of an answer, or can even choose not to give one at all. I found it best to have the first message be almost completely random, something they'd never expect. Remember, the PUA must be the exception to the rule. Here's the opener, and some responses.
Sometimes you'll get girls without creativity and will reply back with a simple "what???" That's the only downfall of this opener but that's a threat with any opener of this kind. At least this girl was nice enough to dismiss the initial question and chose to continue the conversation anyway.
The best responses I've gotten are the ones where they play along:
With just one message to each other I can already get a small sense of how fun her personality might be. Maybe some of you can turn this into a cold-read. It's really up to you where you decide to take conversations like this.
And then there's this one.
Obviously I was in trouble from the get go. But with a little frame control I got her back where I wanted her. Now she's playing my game. The next message I sent was "lol. That was cute." and told her to send me a message on myspace if she wanted to continue the conversation (i don't pay for that site... was just on the free trial).
Once again just another opener to add to your repertoire. Good luck out in the cyberfield. There's nothing wrong with sarging online. Just don't let it be your only source of female interaction. Get out and get some face-to-face action as well!
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kbell
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| I think its an interesting opener, and I think it would work better on profile images with black and white defaults. |
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Whoopie
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| Posted: Wed Mar 19, 2008 7:29 pm Post subject: |
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| lol See I am glad someone else is coming up with there own online opener and tested. I got some of my own and I will post them later. I will show yall how my facebook gaming went. |
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lennon
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| Posted: Sun Mar 23, 2008 1:41 am Post subject: Re: Not Another Myspace Thread.... (Tested opener inside) |
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| diggidoyo wrote: | I know there's lots of these but I stumbled across this gem from another forum. Was just a single post that no one else even mentioned but I thought I'd give it some light here as yet another opener. As with others, I disagree with opinion openers as its a rather offsetting way to being a conversation online. The reason is out in the field, when you ask a girl her opinion its extremely spontaneous and she's put on the spot as she racks her brain for her take on the situation. Online however, the effect is drastically diminished since she has all the time in the world to think of an answer, or can even choose not to give one at all. I found it best to have the first message be almost completely random, something they'd never expect. Remember, the PUA must be the exception to the rule. Here's the opener, and some responses.
Sometimes you'll get girls without creativity and will reply back with a simple "what???" That's the only downfall of this opener but that's a threat with any opener of this kind. At least this girl was nice enough to dismiss the initial question and chose to continue the conversation anyway.
I tried the "Titanic" opener on 3 different sites to I'd say a total of 35-40 women. I got a total of about 8 responses. All telling me to either fuck myself or that I was the lamest loser alive. I do not reccomend that to ANYONE who wants to keep their self-esteem.
The best responses I've gotten are the ones where they play along:
With just one message to each other I can already get a small sense of how fun her personality might be. Maybe some of you can turn this into a cold-read. It's really up to you where you decide to take conversations like this.
And then there's this one.
Obviously I was in trouble from the get go. But with a little frame control I got her back where I wanted her. Now she's playing my game. The next message I sent was "lol. That was cute." and told her to send me a message on myspace if she wanted to continue the conversation (i don't pay for that site... was just on the free trial).
Once again just another opener to add to your repertoire. Good luck out in the cyberfield. There's nothing wrong with sarging online. Just don't let it be your only source of female interaction. Get out and get some face-to-face action as well! |
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Vap0r
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| Posted: Sun Mar 23, 2008 4:19 pm Post subject: Re: Not Another Myspace Thread.... (Tested opener inside) |
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| diggidoyo wrote: |
Once again just another opener to add to your repertoire. Good luck out in the cyberfield. There's nothing wrong with sarging online. Just don't let it be your only source of female interaction. Get out and get some face-to-face action as well! |
omg people are ripping off our shit! Did they credit matchbook method in the thread at least?
I guess I might as well give out the other Short Hook Story opener example we have in the book...
"Hey you look familiar, weren't you at the party last night where the stripper gave the lap dance to the clown?.." |
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Kontrol
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ive been testing out this opener and for the most part it got good replys. except for this one chick... which immediately brought up her major bitch shield, here is the reply i got:
me: hey you look familiar, where you by any chance on the titanic? i swear i saw you cleaning the tables after i finished eating
her: what the fuck is that supossed to mean? no you dont know me.... u will never know me... and dont ever get at me like that again..... cleaning up after you!?!?! u got me fucked up... i dont clean up after anyone.. i make money.. i get mine.. i own my own company which im sure is more than you can say for yourself..... maybe one day youll be blessed enough to clean the bathroom in a resturant i eat at... u ugly ass lil bitch
what would be a good way to frame control in this example? |
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Vap0r
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Run.....RUNNNNNN! lol. That's not a regular bitch shield....she qualifies herself big time in her reply, which shows she is very very insecure and has some effed up psychological issues.
When I get messages like that I get really turned off, but for the hell of it I like to fuck with them and say shit like "lol that's awesome! I'm totally making you my bratty little sister."
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Kontrol
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lol thats a good reply. im going to stay and test this girl just to get some experience. thx man
Update:
Oh shyt, i think i softed her up a bit cuz it seems her b*tch shield is less stronger now. Here is how i responded to the above....
Me: lol that's awesome! I'm totally making you my bratty little sister. (mad props to Vap0r for that one) ur a feisty lil'one missy... im curious, but thats all your getting.
Her: feisty? u flat out disrespected me.... didnt even get at me with a whats good or a hello.. straight said u thought u seen me cleaning ur table? ur just hella rude.. i hope that gets u somewhere in life cuz it doesnt get u no where with me at all
Now i know for sure these are just shyt test.... smelly ones at that |
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Kontrol
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This is by far the dumbest reply i've gotten, how would you reply to this?
me: hey you look familiar, where you be any chance on the the titanic?... i swear i saw you cleaning the tables after i finished eating
her: What? the titanic? as in the ship that sank when it hit an iceberg?? |
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SvenBula
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haha! good bless America. The dumbest girls in the world! How does that make you feel??  |
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| Kontrol wrote: | ive been testing out this opener and for the most part it got good replys. except for this one chick... which immediately brought up her major bitch shield, here is the reply i got:
me: hey you look familiar, where you by any chance on the titanic? i swear i saw you cleaning the tables after i finished eating
her: what the fuck is that supossed to mean? no you dont know me.... u will never know me... and dont ever get at me like that again..... cleaning up after you!?!?! u got me fucked up... i dont clean up after anyone.. i make money.. i get mine.. i own my own company which im sure is more than you can say for yourself..... maybe one day youll be blessed enough to clean the bathroom in a resturant i eat at... u ugly ass lil bitch
what would be a good way to frame control in this example? |
OMG! What a dumb bitch. Seriously, she probably thought that the Titanic was a resturaunt in your town somewhere. |
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LexVerAeq
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so what would you say after she replies. if she doesn't reply in a bitch way. would you run an opinion opener? what routines would best follow this?
-Lex |
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LexVerAeq
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| Posted: Mon Apr 07, 2008 2:37 am Post subject: my run at this |
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Opener works - I dont ever really plan to talk to this chic on yahoo or call her... this is all just a big experiment for me right now. how would i respond to her last message about me giving her my number first? i no you shouldnt give the girl your number (or does it not take effect if she asks for it?) first.
-Lex
yea i got yahoo..its dodomit13@yahoo.com..hit me up sometime u give me ur number and ill call u ok..
----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: J-Rome
Date: Apr 6, 2008 7:21 PM
thanks for the comment - well i gotta get some work done. i cant do my work and keep up with the speed that you reply but we should talk some more. got AIM/Yahoo/MSN? gimme your screen name. or even like in your comment - just give me your number. i promose i'll only send creepy inappropriate messages 9 times a day. lol
-Lex
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From: ~~MaRy~~
Date: Apr 6, 2008 7:14 PM
lol okay
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From: J-Rome
Date: Apr 6, 2008 7:07 PM
send another one - i accidently hit the delete button. its good but replace the "pick me up at 8:30" thing with - lets hang out sometime or something like that... i want her jealous not violent - lol... she stalks my page, imagine if she were to read that and posted herself in front of my place at 8:30 waiting for me to leave... lol
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From: ~~MaRy~~
Date: Apr 6, 2008 7:00 PM
yea thats true..well i left u a comment, see if that one is okay if not let me know
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From: J-Rome
Date: Apr 6, 2008 6:50 PM
well my friend really likes this girl. shes been telling him more and more often that shes been kissing girls. he thinks its hot (what guy wouldnt?) but hes afraid he cant satisfy her and they wont be able to have a more serious relationship. my opinion is that she should of told him from the beginning how she is. im big on honesty. if they establish the relationship as casual from the beginning then it would be fine.
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From: ~~MaRy~~
Date: Apr 6, 2008 6:22 PM
whaaaaat, she kisses girls lol.. is she lesbian? i dont know that depends if u like her kissing other girls?
and yea i can leave u a comment
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From: J-Rome
Date: Apr 6, 2008 6:09 PM
well my friend and her have been dating for about 6 months now. well let me ask you this then... keep the same scenario... but this time she kisses girls. and this isnt the first time... would that be considered cheating?
-Lex
p. s.
my -x- and i just broke up and shes been stalking my profile. think you can leave me a fun/sexy comment to make her jealous and know that im not sticking around for her?
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From: ~~MaRy~~
Date: Apr 6, 2008 5:53 PM
im goin to school for just my general ed for now.. and i got interviews for medical and target lol.. and about ur question well it depends if they were 'officially' a couple, it depends if they are dating seriously if not then no its not cheating but if u are goin for the 'long term ' thing then yea its cheating kinda lol y?
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From: J-Rome
Date: Apr 6, 2008 4:15 PM
What do you go to school for? what kinda jobs are you interviewing for? since i have your attention... i need a females perspective on something... say this guy is dating this girl and she goes out with her friends... she has a few drinks and ends up making out with some random guy... do you consider this cheating?
-Lex
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From: ~~MaRy~~
Date: Apr 6, 2008 4:11 PM
omg lol okaaay daaang.. i live in san berdo, i go to school, party, and currently unemployed.. lol.. but ive had a couple of interviews so hopefully someone calls lol...
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From: J-Rome
Date: Apr 6, 2008 4:08 PM
remember i said you gotta answer the same questions you ask me? lol
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From: ~~MaRy~~
Date: Apr 6, 2008 3:09 PM
do i really look familiar or were u just saying that?.. cuz u look like some one.. but i dont know them or anything.. u look like this bartender that bartends at this club lol
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From: J-Rome
Date: Apr 6, 2008 3:01 PM
hold on now - it takes time to get to know me.
you gotta answer the same questions you;re asking me.
I'm from Diamond bar just like my profile says... i also live in hollywood and also have a place in san bernardino.
work? i own 2 businesses... my profile just says im a business owner so yea i know its hard to figure what i do for a living lol
-Lex
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From: ~~MaRy~~
Date: Apr 6, 2008 2:46 PM
where u work at? so whats up with u?
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From: J-Rome
Date: Apr 6, 2008 2:21 PM
you look familiar. were you by any chance at the titanic? i swear i saw you cleaning tables after i finished eating.
-Lex |
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| Posted: Tue Apr 08, 2008 5:45 pm Post subject: a lil advice... |
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me: you look familiar, were you by any chance on the titanic?
i swear i saw you cleaning tables after i finished eating...
her: Excuse me?!
lol what would be a good response? i think its the "?!" that throws me off... 
~Luke Duke |
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| Lex ... smooth muthafucka man ... anyway ... take that IM crap out and go for number closes if you ever get that much comfort going. |
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