Zoolander
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 Posted: Mon Mar 24, 2008 9:10 pm Post subject: Push Pull |
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What is the Push/Pull method:
Push/Pull is exactly what it sounds like its bringing someone in letting them taste the sweetness and then kicking them back to the curb you found them on.
Why does this create attraction:
Push/Pull creates attraction because when someone gets a taste of something new and exciting they want it and by not giving it to them it makes them want it more.
It works in direct cohesion with the cat-string method. This is when you taunt a cat with a piece of string, letting it get it between its paws for just a moment enough to entice it and then pull the string away. If you don't let the cat get the string at all it might not notice it and if you let the cat have the string it won't want it. It also shows the willingness to walk away which is a very important trait of an alpha male. This hits the preselection trigger as well because a man who can walk away must have something else!
The Push:
The pull is the opposite of normal behavior towards a woman, talking back your compliments/negging, removing your touch, turning away from her.
The Pull:
The push is generally normal behavior towards a women. Complimenting her, touching her, smelling her, what have you.
The key to a successful push/pull is to dangle the bait just long enough to excite someone then pull it away.
Negs are a sort of push pull but as we all know 80% of language is body language if you are standing firm while negging someone then your not really pushing her away.
All push pulls should include some sort of body language!
For example:
Arrow The Pull: bring her in for a hug
Arrow The Push: push her away physically and say something like slow down we just met
see how that action of pushing her away negates any signs of neediness!
another example could be for a neg:
Arrow The Pull: You smell great
Arrow The Push: for someone who hasnt bathed in a week (while turning away and grabbing your nose)
even just a body rock can work for a push thats why mystery method uses it in their openers
when you open a set and body rock thats a perfect example of a push pull!
Think about it and let me know if you have any questions!
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