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Ice
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 Posted: Fri Jul 07, 2006 4:18 am Post subject: Girls Tests |
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Let me tell you, I was hanging out with a 9HB, constantly teasing her, after that giving her hugs and she received them, to sum up, everything was going well.
But one day chatting she start asking me all kind of questions and my answer was " I prefer to talk this things in person, not internet", and her response was "what? are you searching an excuse to see me again?"
After this I completely frozen, I have no idea what to say to her because I didnt want to say a wussy line like "yes I miss you", any sugestions?? Thanks |
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Finesse
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haha sounds like she gamed you...
probably say something like "I'm searching for an excuse for you to buy me a drink actually"
What did you say to her? did you just go offline?
I find internet conversations really easy to come up with a come back because you have more time to do so. Try to use this in your advantage |
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Ice
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| Posted: Fri Jul 07, 2006 6:05 pm Post subject: |
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No, I reformulate the same question to her, like "and you dont want to see me??" which was a completely wussy answer. I dont know what happen in that second, but my wussy emerges sometimes, I have to control it better.
Is a great cocky funny answer the one you say, thanks.
I dont know if im being played, but one thing is certain, Im starting to have one-itis problems with her, and that is affecting my game, I want to see her all the time, this is not good. |
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paquitao
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I would try Finesse aswer, so you can get all the pressure that she tried to throw you back to her..,,,  |
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theone88
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| Posted: Thu Jul 13, 2006 8:29 pm Post subject: |
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| See, internet = bad. It's not a good way to build up your self esteem and get over the nervousness that comes with asking a girl questions. Another thing, you could ACTUALLY be talking to a man pretending to be a woman. Awkward. |
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Saros
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It seems she was just playing with you. Come on, if you teased her, she is probably going to tease you back. That's what flirting is all about man! I would advise you not to take that line too seriously because there's too much ambiguity behind what she actually meant. (Thats why I dont like instant messaging, because there is no way to hear the tone in your partner's voice)
I would probably have said something like "Ew. No." or teased her back "Hahaha good one! But I'm the type that learns from past mistakes  "
Finesse's line would do fine as well.
But if you believe she is giving you a shit test that you can't respond to, stay quiet and then talk about something that shifts the topic and switches up her emotions. If you keep a solid frame, it will do nothing but work in your favor. |
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no7opinion
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| Posted: Tue Jul 18, 2006 1:05 pm Post subject: internet 9 |
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your internet 9 could be a man, a phreak, you just don't know. some people post photos of other people so that you will talk to them or will post a photo of themselves from 10 years ago.
the internet provides a certain level of anonimity, what ever happened to just meeting people? |
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no7opinion
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| Posted: Tue Jul 18, 2006 1:17 pm Post subject: |
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are you searching for an excuse to see me again?
1. yes. why don't we hook up Friday?
2. yes I am. I think that you and I clicked and I would definitely like to hang out with you again, how does Saturday sound?
3. wouldn't you  yes. I would like to see you again. when are you free? Sunday is best for me.
etc. etc. etc. |
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orlandomac
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I'm with Finesse...
Playful humour is always Xcellent...
Her: Looking for an excuse to see me again?
Me:
Of course I am... you cooking me a home made meal through a fax machine is out of the question... besides I'm cutting back on my Paper Carbs...
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I'm promoting you... you've stalked me long enough on the net, you can stalk me in person now...
Ice it sounds like you are tensing up during your interactions... forget about the game... just have fun with it... Tease her as you can... with more practice it will become second nature... |
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Finesse
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hahaha orlandomac... lovin that fax & paper carbs!
Yeah agreed with orlandomac, Ice just try to keep cool (your name suggests it  ) and just treat her like a bratty sister... bust her balls! (I said treat, dont visualise... coz thats kinda gross haha kidding mate!)
I find the best way to learn how to flirt is to get kino with girls... 1 thing I learnt from highschool when a girl use to love to push or punch me... means she fancies you. Think of a time when a girl always bullied you in highschool. If she's butch... its because she's really a man.. if she's a 6 - 10 then she's definately flirting with you, basically what she wants is you to hit her back (obviously not knock her out but to play around) and thats what I think that HB9 is doing to you... she's just giving you a punch back since you've been punching her all this time. |
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Ice
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| Posted: Fri Jul 28, 2006 3:39 am Post subject: |
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No7opinion, im not stupid, she a girl, not a dude fucking with me, I have met her before.
Thanks for the advide to all of you, up to now im continue seeing her and having a fantastic time together, although this can end from one day to another, once you pass through the bitch wall, beatiful girls are sweet just like regular ones, is worth the effort.
Oh, and one thing, the first time she agree meeting with me, she said that because all the others guys continue telling her "wow you are beautiful" and wussy things like that, and i just keep busting her balls and teasing her, and never never mention how hot she is.
Oh, finesse, you are the 1st one that get the message of my PUA name lol
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Kurent
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| Just so you all know, THAT WAS A MAJOR SHIT TEST! |
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Monkey
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That's not even a major shit test. That's a minor one.
Questions like this are easy to get by. Just say yes. Or turn it around.
Her: Are you looking for an excuse to see me again?
You: Absolutely. How am I supposed to get a decent backrub if we're both sitting at a computer?
Her: Are you looking for an excuse to see me again?
You: You've got a bad attitude, but if you buy me a drink, I'll think about forgiving you.
Her: Are you looking for an excuse to see me again?
You: Never mind, then. I'll call one of my other girlfriends and I'll let HER cook me lasagne.
She's trying to make it about her. Make it about you. |
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orlandomac
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| Xcellent Monkey |
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willy_dick
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| Monkey wrote: | That's not even a major shit test. That's a minor one.
Questions like this are easy to get by. Just say yes. Or turn it around.
Her: Are you looking for an excuse to see me again?
You: Absolutely. How am I supposed to get a decent backrub if we're both sitting at a computer?
Her: Are you looking for an excuse to see me again?
You: You've got a bad attitude, but if you buy me a drink, I'll think about forgiving you.
Her: Are you looking for an excuse to see me again?
You: Never mind, then. I'll call one of my other girlfriends and I'll let HER cook me lasagne.
She's trying to make it about her. Make it about you. |
thats very good. i think im going to have to try that one....thanks monkey |
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