A good responds for when a HB says "I want u"

shoofy

I would not say I have an “amazing game” but I have game. My problem is when one of my HB’s says, “I want you.” I want something powerful but nothing to punish her for this. Because I approve of this her feeling this way and saying this should I not reward her. What would be a good comment back besides, “how does it feel to want?” Which is my only gun in my arsenal for that and I don’t think I should be using it. Advice greatly appreciated. Thanks guys!

Rotor · Posted: Wed Mar 12, 2008 11:16 pm Post subject:

Ummm. not sure I understand the problem. Seems pretty straightforward to me, go caveman on her.

Of course, context is everything.

shoofy · Posted: Wed Mar 12, 2008 11:37 pm Post subject:

Well in person I would but this was something that was text to me. I have also had this said to me in a place before were I couldn't. Even over the phone. Whats the proper why to handle those sorts of situations?

KINGCASANOVA · Posted: Thu Mar 13, 2008 12:41 am Post subject:

JUST SAY PLAYFULLY, "HEY HEY I DONT GIVE IT UP ON THE FIRST DATE, WHAT DO YOU THINK I AM, A WOMAN? NOW IF YOURE IN PERSON, TELL HER TO "PROOVE IT" LET HER GO CAVEMAN ON YOU FOR A SECOND OR TWO THEN PUSH HER AWAY AND STATE THE ABOVE. IT WILL WORK BECAUSE THEN ALL IT WILL DO IN THE GRANDER SCHEME OF THINGS IS JUST MAKE HER WANT YOU MORE, WHICH IN ESSENCE IS WHAT YOU WANT.

Whoopie · Posted: Thu Mar 13, 2008 1:04 am Post subject:

Casanova does have a point! Just be funny and playful. I am sure you will only be able to throw her off so much until she rapes you!

shoofy · Posted: Thu Mar 13, 2008 7:04 am Post subject:

lol yea I expect that will happen. She typically doesn't talk about sex or anything to do with it, but lately I have just been doing what she would do. So I will say things like hey listen I am more then a piece of meat. I have a mind and feelings okay! Now she has gotten more aggressive sometimes I play along and other times I say your gross. Stop talking like that I am not that easy god. Just recently she said she wanted me so I replied with. Well everyone has a price but I don't think you can afford me.

SoCalFamous · Posted: Thu Mar 13, 2008 7:12 pm Post subject:

What I would do... after she says I want you, make out with her.
But make it a real kiss, the ones that will keep her wanting more. Then ask "how much do you want me?"

She'll probably end up saying something like "alot". Then make out again and do your thing. Escalate properly. Like one thing that I ALWAYS do in this situation is.

While kissing her and she's really digging it, is pulling up the bottom of mine and her shirts at the same time then pressing up against her.
This will give her feel like you two are already in a sexual state.
Cuz really, the only time she will ever feel someone elses stomach against hers is during sex.

Hopefully this helps some.

dman · Posted: Sun Mar 16, 2008 5:09 am Post subject:

she gave you a big IOI, reward her with kino

Roads · Posted: Sun Mar 16, 2008 9:35 pm Post subject:

newman301 · Posted: Tue Mar 18, 2008 4:41 pm Post subject:

I'd go with the make out with her move too. That's the first thing that popped into my head.

J_J · Posted: Mon Mar 24, 2008 1:35 pm Post subject:

Making out with her right away is too easy. It might help you pick up a 6 or 7, but a 9 or 10 will quite likely realise how easily she just got you, and lose interest.

Mike · Posted: Mon Mar 24, 2008 4:17 pm Post subject:

Say with a smile on your face, "I'm sure you do, Uncle Sam", and start making out.

Dr^ZigMan · Posted: Mon Mar 24, 2008 4:38 pm Post subject:

I'm surprised no one mentioned the Style response...

"Respect"

I've used it with success (Admittedly never for "I want you" but similar lesser IOSI's) and it usually leads to them escalating the naughty talk. It's just the right amount of resistance to make them think they are fighting to "get you." At which point the caveman is a strong contrast and by setting up solid juxtapositions she feels the extremes of emotions right after each other which heightens their intensity.

brookes12 · Posted: Wed Mar 26, 2008 5:41 pm Post subject:

i wud tease her. tell her maybe. she can come back to yours do summit, and then its a possiblity she can have you, ur making her wait, thats alpha male dominance

Disceto · Posted: Mon Apr 14, 2008 3:52 am Post subject:

agreed go caveman

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