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The Nature Boy
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 Posted: Sat Feb 16, 2008 8:19 pm Post subject: # Close, date setup, then flake...?! |
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So I'm at a bar with a pivot, 2 of her friends, and a guy friend of mine.
I see a bunch of other girls I know from campus and slowly made my way from set to set where all of the girls greeted and gave me kiss on the cheek and a hug (Built huge social proof).
I pay a game of pong with a girl who was buying me my drinks, when my friend says that we're going to another venue (a club).
So on my way out, I see one of the girls I know, HB8, and she pulls me towards her to start dancing, which I gave her a quick one, and then said my friends are waiting on me, I have to go...So she gets all, "When will I see you, we have to hang out, blah blah"
And I got a quick #-close and said, "I'll tell you what, I'm free at 5 tommorow evening, we'll grab dinner on campus." She agreed and was very excited and happy as I left.
I text her the next morning, "I don't know how you slipped by my secretary, especially for dinner! usually that spot is reserved for the #1 girl, but i guess i gotta keep my word now  "
I get a text back a few hours later saying, "HAHA....I have work tonight  "
I responded even a few hours after sayng, "Haha, we both know that cleaning turtle shells isn't exactly worrrk, who are you tying to kid lolol" (I don't know what she does?....and I figured a neg/funny comment would work here)
(I'm getting over a horrible one-itis currently and I think I displayed too much interest too soon, and I think that's what messed it up)
She hasn't responded a day later....any hope at saving this in a few days?
I was thinking to freeze her out, then maybe re-open with a DHV? Any advice guys? |
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Ubium
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| I would presume that her buying temperature was high during that event and in order to have that same experience with her you would actually have to bring her out to another event, some girls are like that. You could of played hard to get when she wanted to initiate a dance with you as to not come off somewhat needy. |
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The Nature Boy
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I should have put all the details my mistake.
I was on my way out of the venue actually with several girls waiting for me, and leaving my pong partner who was about a HB7.5. I gave a quick 1 minute or so of a dance then pulled away and was like listen I gotta go.
Then I #-closed and set up a meeting time. I was thinking maybe she isn't exactly comfortable with meeting me alone yet, but I think she is still interested. She found me on facebook after she cancelled on me Friday night and friended me...
I was thinking to either:
a) call her tommorow (Monday), make some small talk, DHV, C&F over the phone or
b) send a joke through text message, build some comfort, show her I'm a fun person to kep in touch with
Then I wanted to ask her and her girls out with me and some guy friends for this upcoming Thursday (a week from the #-close)
...Anyone else think either of these would work? |
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Triple R
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sup dude, yeah it's gonna work. if txt her saying, "were all getting together this weekend." don't ask just say that you guys are. this what i did and it worked.
heres the problem that same girl i text that the next day she txt
" we should do coffee this week."
2 days later i txt
"hey babe can u cook, u should make us a nice dinner (request) lol."
later that night she txt
"y can't u cook for me?"
i replied w/ "haha, if anything i'll bring dessert, and a cool movie."
ok so the next morning, her txt
"sounds good, wen u free?"
I then txt her hrs later w/
" saturday nite, u should get some tips on cooking lol, unless u know how, is sat ok."
after that text, 2 days in i havn't heard from her. What should i do?  help. |
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burtcocaine
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| Triple R wrote: | sup dude, yeah it's gonna work. if txt her saying, "were all getting together this weekend." don't ask just say that you guys are. this what i did and it worked.
heres the problem that same girl i text that the next day she txt
" we should do coffee this week."
2 days later i txt
"hey babe can u cook, u should make us a nice dinner (request) lol."
later that night she txt
"y can't u cook for me?"
i replied w/ "haha, if anything i'll bring dessert, and a cool movie."
ok so the next morning, her txt
"sounds good, wen u free?"
I then txt her hrs later w/
" saturday nite, u should get some tips on cooking lol, unless u know how, is sat ok."
after that text, 2 days in i havn't heard from her. What should i do? help. |
common mistakes man, could happen to anyone. but its good you recognized the request as a mistake. i want you to read back over your post, and look at the whole thing in general. does is sound PUA, or on the AFC side?
you don't ask if saturday is okay. she already agreed to a date. and asked when YOU are free. she's interested, so she'll make time.
just have a little more confidence.
you're on the right path though. good luck man |
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Triple R
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thanks 4 the critique,
ok so last nite i # close 2 hb's8. i built up rapport and threw in soms dhv's and sniper negs. the first hb said she was kinda seeing this guy, she didn't even remeber his name, and we both were making fun of this guy haha!
so my question is, how long should i wait to text her? from saturday nite.
adding.
so last night after she got of work she invited me to her place 
we watched a movie, and after made out and i fingured her. when i wanted to make a bouce to the bedroom, she told that "she's not kind of girl, and that we were not going have sex."
in other words lmr. onther problem was that i wasn't hard. i excused my self to go to the restroom to see what wa up
it was like a movie, a comedy 
i need some help. |
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Simpua
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| Triple R wrote: | thanks 4 the critique,
ok so last nite i # close 2 hb's8. i built up rapport and threw in soms dhv's and sniper negs. the first hb said she was kinda seeing this guy, she didn't even remeber his name, and we both were making fun of this guy haha!
so my question is, how long should i wait to text her? from saturday nite.
adding.
so last night after she got of work she invited me to her place
we watched a movie, and after made out and i fingured her. when i wanted to make a bouce to the bedroom, she told that "she's not kind of girl, and that we were not going have sex."
in other words lmr. onther problem was that i wasn't hard. i excused my self to go to the restroom to see what wa up
it was like a movie, a comedy
i need some help. |
Hmmm... reading this made me think of an idea. We've all heard Mystery's kiss close routine... anyone have a routine similar to it for f closing?
Something along the lines of:
PUA: "You want to take me into the bedroom, don't you?"
HB: "Yes" > Go for it
"Maybe" > Go for it
"No" > "Good, because I'm not that easy."
Can anyone field test this for me. I still have trouble getting day 2s so I'm not in a position to test this. |
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